So I had an incredible time with this girl I met the other night - the chemistry was great we spoke for ages, she stayed at mine (although there was know sexy time - just flirting, not even a kiss actually) and she even asked me if I wanted to go for breakfast the next day instead of meeting her friends - we agree to meet up soon and we text eachother in the week then on the morning of meeting up i get this...

"Sorry but the guy I'm kinda seeing doesnt like that we're texting eachother so we probably shouldnt meet up - sorry - probably see you round though" < I was obviously really pissed off but didnt want to seem desperate so simply replied "See you round" - that was a few weeks ago but I still fee like I missed an opportunity there - we had a greatr connection that I find VERY rarely - do you think this is fixable? I was thinking of messaging her on FB saying something along the lines of

"So as this guy your "kinda seeing" doesnt like us texting I thought I'd send you a message here instead, if that's allowed (then some relevant stuff I heared about her work etc blah blah then >) So what happend then? We clearly get on incredibly well, we chatted for ages, flirted, had a great time and had bf the next day etc. What changed? I just think it's a shame thats all. In fact I think you should stick 2 fingers up at this guy and come out with me. Just a thought." < and leave it at that - these are what i see as possible reactions;

1. (the ideal) she'll reconsider seeing me due to the ballsy and funny message
2. It'll wind her up that I had the cheek to do it
3. She'll think I'm odd

I'm well aware that a message like this could have an opposite effect where I look weak rather than strong as I've messaged her. And it could be awkward if I bump into her.... What are your guys thoughts - what have you done in similar situations - My usual instinct would be to fuck it and forget her but I certainly got the impression she was into me (and so did everyone else there when we met I quote "wet for you" - and that wasn't my friends telling me that to please me, as I was asking - it was them asking how it went with the girl"

I'd appreciate the help here
RTH

a girl mate of mine suggested not even meantioning the other guy or the other night and just be flirty and funny like I was when we met, and see how that goes down - will that not look odd as I'm FBing her and not texting hr when i have her number?

questions to ask yourself,

Did you use any kino on her?
Is it possible that she LJBFed you?
this kind of seems like shes blowing you off, but if you feel you guys had a good connection then proceed. Call her and run the phone game. I wouldn't text her because you have to wait for a response and your less likely to understand how she responds and you don't run the risk of the partner shes seeing finding out. Be prepared to establish and emotional connection and then DHV then her. Talk for a couple of minutes, keep it brief, say your busy and you will have to speak to her later on, (don't ask her out yet) remember to leave on a good note. Call her a day later and organise a time to catch up in a social place i.e coffee shop or something that better suits you)

This is just a guide it may need tuning.

Remember who cares what he thinks, shes your target just as much.

Hope this helps

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i.e. you kept building rapport, and refused to risk breaking it by teasing, using push-pull, or kino escalating past friendly to sexual. = FRIENDZONE.

This will keep happening as long as you keep being a pussy. Be a challenge, be sexual, show your intentions, make her work for you. Be a MAN. It will be fun. You will get laid.

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I get what you've all said cheers. To answer the question there was serious kino actually - we were playing with eachohters hands and stroking eachothers forearms etc - I'm not normally a pussy like this but nothing happend - I was wel laware of the danger of the FZ, I'll see how it goes over the next few days and get back to you - I'm keeping it casual now anyway - I've probably taken the pussy route by facebooking her but dont really want to call her if shes with this guy when i call - i sent her a short message with a video clip relevant to what weve spoke about and basically just said how r u etc - I'll see how responsive she is to this before moving things on - If its complete rejection then I know where to stop - if it goes well then I can think about calling her then - and if i dont get a response then I know shes not interested - I'm not going to be hanging on waiting for a response now anyway - I've made a move in that direction - tested the water, so I've done all i can. I just didnt want to leave it with "see you round" - cheers guys

So i sent this....

Yo!
Saw this film the other day and thought I'd treat (yes "treat", I know how to spoil a woman ) you to a clip - its a sweet scene but I think you'll appreciate the terrible joke at the end http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=05peq_7hfEE
How you doing anyway? Heard *celebrity* was down your way the other day. He I heard from a cameraman that he’s a right knob, any reports? x

and got this back

heyho!
"terrible joke"...I think you'll find it's an awesome joke!
All good this end, just really busy. Didn't actually meet *celebrity*- gutted. But he bought james and harry a drink...so he can't be too bad!
Gonna go see Due Date with work friends...should be good...cos I heart Alan from The Hangover.
How's things with you?
X

I need to get it flirty asap - any suggestions - so far i could easily be in the fz so that needs to change - there was 100% chemistry between us i just need to remind her of that.
RTH

Yep I had the identical experience, amazing date but the bitch kept going on about her boyfriend. I thought she was meaning her ex hahaha.

Well Blondguy hit the nail on this thread. Next time I'm going with his advice, and I will WIN.

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