So here is some background information. I'm a sophmore in HS and shes a freshman. Shes been sort of seeing this guy who is sort of my friend (also a sophmore) for over 2-3 months now. Shes been out with him for 3 dates but denies liking him and other such things.

At first we were total strangers but I caught her looking at me a couple of times during school. So i decided to approach her but I couldn't because the guy she was seeing started talking to her before I could approach her. This is where it gets confusing, I don't have a great reputation in my school with the girls. I have messed with too many to count. And some of them just happened to be close friends with this new girl. I decided to approach her best friend who I happened to know. We started talking and after an hour her best friend actually admitted into liking me and thinking that i'm very attractive more attractive than the guy her friend was seeing by a long shot. So i decided to still use her best friend to get to her by having a webcam party with her and 20 other people including the girl i'm after. The first webchat was pretty horrible as I first started teasing the bestfriend and then started teasing the girl I was after. After a while of teasing she demanded to know who I was while smiling like crazy during the entire conversation( I didn't have my webcam at the time ). Then the bestfriend started getting jealous and decided to call in two of my bestfriends who didn't know I was in the room and put on gangster costumes and started taking out bb guns and trolling on the chat for the fun of it. So that chat ended horribly because i didn't get to tell the girl who I was and also i gave off a bad first impression (she thought it was me who invited the guys).

So the next day I decided to get the best friend to web cam with me at the same time telling her to make it a party. She reluctantly agreed and in the end I did get to talk to the girl i was aiming for getting her to smile multiple of times and also revealing who I was and she seemed very interested. At this point everything from yesterday came to haunt me. The bestfriend called in the same guys again... but it was still better than last time. I decided to get the girl to add me on facebook and got her to ask me to talk to her on AIM. At this point I realized I was dealing with an attention whore. (Many more examples as well) She didn't ask me for my AIM and just told me to IM her not even telling me her AIM which she knew that I wouldn't know. So I had to ask her and she told me it. I proceeded to im her and the conversation went okay but it was still pretty awkward. I decided to im her the next day as well but that conversation turned out to be even more awkward. In the middle of the conversation I just told myself that i didn't care anymore so I decided to just be blunt and honest because its a strategy that worked for me multiple amounts of time. I told her... "i'm going to be blunt and honest your pretty cute, but i'm betting that a lot of guys tell you that. So i'm not going to say your cute but just ask you to go out with me to see a movie sometime." She told me that she would but she didn't know me very well, so I said "why don't you just give me your number than from the small off chance that we might have some interesting conversation" and she did give me her phone number. Then I started fucking up real bad. I started watching tv and talking to her at the same time making the conversation very awkward because i am a poor multitasker. She ended up saying that she needed to go and she did. I decided it was best for me to just ignore her the next day. I texted her the day after asking her if she called me or not. She denied doing such a thing and she honestly didn't. From then on the conversation got nowhere because I started taking advice from my friend whose style only works for him and not for me. Later around like 7 i decided to talk to her once more using my own style and this time things went fabulously well. She responded to me almost instantly instead of slowly which she was doing the last couple of days. Usually her bedtime is at 11 but I got her to stay till 1 AM talking to me. The next day I texted her and asked her how her test went and she was like "who is this? sorry all my contacts were erased" I find that really untrue. But it might be true so I don't know. We immediately started up good conversation again. I decided to not answer her for 2 hours and later imed her claiming that I was playing tennis and didn't have time to get to her. Then i asked her to help me pick out a present for my sister. She decided to help at first but later told me that she would help me pick out a present later as she had lots to do. 10 minutes later i saw on my newsfeed her chatting away with other people. At this point i'm pretty lost. I have no idea what i'm supposed to do. I know I screwed up a bunch of times in the beginning but I thought I recovered already. She doesn't talk much to the guy on the internet but in school hes always with her so its hard to approach her without forming bad blood between us two.

A close friend of mine is sleeping over at her house and asked me if i wanted to have her put in a good word for me or something. I have no idea what i'm doing right now because i'm completely baffled and also a bit rusty, the last time I dated was back 8 months ago before SATs. So any of you guys have any help for me?

I stopped reading after "webcam party" what the FUCK is that?

You kids need to get off the internet and into REAL FUCKING LIFE. You like her? Fuckin tell her to go do something with you in the PHYSICAL WORLD where you can KINO, qualify and comfort build, just the TWO of you.

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ok dude, first thing, you mentioned that you see her at school, so why the FUCK are you trying to organise a webcam chat? If you see her everyday, just go open. Also, you said you haven't dated in 8 months, so I recommend getting with two or three other girls to get some practice in and get your confidence up. It will also give her time to forget any mistakes you made, because starting from scratch is much easier than trying to recover from dumb shit, if you understand.

Peace

well, she is never alone. 50% of the time guys who like her are following her and talking to her. The other 50% of the time shes with a big bunch of friends. I don't see how I can get in there. Most of the girls she hangs out with are girls i've dated last year. Almost all the guys except for one are my friends as well. I want to keep make it seem like she was never interested in them in the first place. I have tried approaching her in school but almost always a group of my friends see me and passively cock block me. I've seen her look at me whenever I am "cock blocked". But that look might just indicate that she acknowledges that we are there because we are a pretty big group.

Also I didn't organize anything. I was invited to join. Plus it was a 5 day weekend for our school. I had work to do after school on the day we did have school and I heard from a friend of mine that one of the guys she showed interest but denied in liking went out on a 3rd date with her. And to me that was a little bit too deep for my comfort so i decided to pursue cyberly