What to do when. The girl is confusing herself with ex's or other guys?

Unfortunately, a lot of hot girls are 'in-between' relationships, many girls underplay the amount of guys they have on 'the go' and even if they think they don't really have many male emotional involvements there's plenty of friends or ex-boyfriends who occasionally make some kind of sexual advance that is enough to muddle the girls head.

How do you maintain a position of strength and carry on the interaction without losing the girl?

According to the 'Alpha inner game' model of 'increasing your results with girls' it suggests that you should see the universe as a place full of abundance, and rather than being hooked up on this one girl you should just try and continue your life without relying on her, that way indirectly she'll become more attracted to you.

That makes sense on many levels, but it still doesn't solve the problem that you do actually have to have some kind of regular interaction with this girl to continue to conversation. The recommendation is to keep your conversations 'off the topic' of attraction and onto the topic of whatever is interesting and happening between your both realities (rather than directly about your own) that way you can help her metaphorical pursuits through the world, by talking about silly little things that we all get concerned about on a day to day basis.

A lot of people talk about getting 'stuck in the friend zone' but this isn't really a concern, the reality is a lot of friendships turn into relationships, and most relationships that occur typically happen through friendship groups because they encourage a regular interaction and its being frequently demonstrated that proximity creates lust/love.

At the end of the day, a lot of guys won't be fully congruent in their intent to bag this girl, yet you can remain this 'centre' of calm that just continues and nothing bothers him and you simply create a place where she can discover herself through the metaphors, through the stories you share together, combined with the power of kino escalation and never conveying that your directly interested you'll never get blown out and you'll find that she ends up chasing you, while all the other guys disappear off the face of the planet while they're sucked into whatever else as taken their fancy.

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