Hey guys I joined two days ago and I've just been reading a lot of the information around here and it's great!

So here's the thing: Theres a girl that I've been friends with since the elementary school (we're in college now). We've never dated or anything but we've hooked up twice before. Both times we were intoxicated, so I didn't think anything of it, although I do like her a lot. Def. girlfriend material. She's a shy girl and doesn't actually flirt with me, but does it mean something when she picks me out of other guys at a party to make out with while she's drunk?

I don't know how to access our relationship; I try to ask her about the times we've hooked up but she either says she doesn't remember, which I'm in high disbelief of.. then there's the time she basically insisted that she came over to give me a massage.. no K-close but we did wrestle until her mom called and she had to leave.

I'm trying to figure out how she feels about me, but it's always an awkward topic to try and bring up.

any takers?

dude of course she won't remember if you ask her flat out 'about the times you hooked up' - her anti-slut forcefield would have been in over drive.

can I ask how much experience you have in approaching/seeing girls?

Well I have plenty of female friends so I'm not an idiot when it comes to women. But when it comes to approach I'm AFC. I've never been in a comitted relationship but I've hooked up with other girls before also.

Ok first You say she is a shy girl, so she is not very forward when sober, Drink removes her shy inabitions, hence she hooks up with people when drink. If she keeps picking you out of all the other guys their, it would be a pretty fair assertion that she wants more than just freinds, drink removed her inabitions sorounding hooking up with you.

This assertion maby wrong, you may just have been the only guy around and she was horney, so just do some breaking out the freindzone stuff, like looking at other girls when out with her commenting on them ect, and just see how she reacts to it....

Yeah of course she likes you. Girls don't kiss guys they wouldn't have sex with. You need to man-up a bit though. You need to make it easy for her because she is going to have all kinds of doubt going on. She will be asking herself if you like her, if you are confident enough for her, if you are a sex guy or a marriage guy, and even thinking kids and stuff like that about you but shy girls need you to tell them what to do. You can come right out and say it too. Say what ever you want and if YOU believe it, SHE'll believe it.

All you need to do is make up your mind what kind of relationship you are going to have with her and then make it happen. If it is sex then you need to escalate to that point and never give her those mixed signals that you might want something else. If you want a LTR then escalate to sex and take it from there. From sex you can take it to where ever you want without much resistance.

I went on a first date last night with a girl and she wouldn't kiss me because "I hardly know you" and "you're so fresh" so I took her hand, put it on my cock and smiled and said "now you know me, I want to get to know you" and she totally went for it because I didn't flinch. She kept rubbing it and I let go of her to see how much she would do on her own and she started kissing me and putting her hands all over me. Learn push/pull. It will be your best friend.

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