So, i just got this new job in a shop for about 2 weeks...

the cleaning girls is just so hot... HB9 at least

I manage preatty easly to open conversation with her and everything, even received IOI i think...

The problem is; i'm new, so recently (friday the 22) i was walking in the shop to visit a bit and mostly to take a walk. I clearly reached the deepest corner of the place and i see her cleaning kart...

I quickly turn and try to get the fuck out before she arrives but i totally miss my chance and she open the door near the kart...

ME- '' hey there, i'm visiting the place a bit, there's plenty of space here''
she lean back on the wall and we talked for a minute before i told her i needed to return to work...




So i resume... i found her alone in ''the dark'' and deepest corner of the place at my lunch break...For sure she think i'm a stalker...

(no confort zone so i was not able to get C&F or anything...)




I still want to make it happen so i'm asking you guys? is there a chance? and maybe.... how?



I don't want to excuse myself... but i think she think i was on spying her or something and i don't want this


'' you know when we met friday... i was really just visiting the shop and when i saw your cleaning kart i tried to GTFO but you arrived too earlier for me to get away... So now i asume that you think i was stalking you...''

that is the basic thing to say... but i insit on the idea to not excuse myself. (is it alright?)


hope to see good thing coming out of this...

haha dude

You are overlooking it in my opinion

Don't say anything remotely close to that. Fuck her thoughts. Even if she thinks your a stalker, w/e. And don't get stuck on one girl, shes just a girl and there are millions others.

"found her alone in ''the dark'' and deepest corner of the place "

Maybe she wanted for you to join her :S

Dude, Your thinking to much about her. Just do what you would normally do. leav her every day on a high note aswell. that will help

Hearing it just make much more sens to me right now ;p

so today i'm going to work at 3 and i'll try to meet her so i'll try something to at least diminuish the tenssion... maybe something humorous about what happend...



And yup guy i really know there's many more girl outside but this one get me the chills, no one it is, be sure. And mostly, i'work at the same place as her so i don't want to be taged as the new freaky stalker...



good day/evening guys!

Personally I wouldn't even bring it up. Now that would be creepy.

I don't know if you ARE a stalker or not, but by the way you write it shows that you are THINKING like a stalker.

The problem is, is that you are going boinkers all over in your mind about this girl. That's going to show in your interactions with her, and it definitely won't build attraction. You need to chill the fuck out, be cool, pull back and make her work for YOU a little more.

EXACTLY like clozer wrote.

You know what Guys? i just tought about... What would the guy of the forum would have telled me? and i clearly tought about not talking about it so...

stupid Report...

So she entered the place and i did not took a look at her, my friend here told me she was staring at me... (good sign to me...)

So after this at the break i met her in the employes room, (she was moping) I did not give a a look, i've gone to the employes closets and she just followed me to there to talk, (uber good sign to me ^^)



She was smiling and seems to be happy to talk so i'm thankfull to you guys who told me to stop freaking about that.






And be sure ^^ i am no stalker ^^

High e-five!

You played it off great! Just make sure you don't follow her around and keep talking to her every single chance you get. Tease her a bit, push then pull

i kinda have the same problem, this girl gave me the LJBF, and her friends told me that she wasn;t really interested in me anyway i can turn the tide?
p.s i'm still new.

Forget about her man, you may have came off way to strong or showed her you were into her to fast. Find another chick bro....one girl ain't shit.

ouhh..what should i do the next time? or how can i improve myself?

@nuteen; Forget it man... and if you don't want to, just ignore her, neg her only once cause if more she,ll speak about the stalking thing ;p

you need to show a different facade of yourself to her to F her thoughts!!!

Don't speak about it, don't even mention the accident, act alpha around her, DHV with subtelery...




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And actually for me it's going F-ing well ;p

I ignore her for a good part of my work time, and been lucky i think... Yeah really lucky, i think she clearly like me even before i game her (I know i'm acting like an asshole but i feel less fun to game her cause it seems easy now... anyways..)

-Saw her going to clean the employe's room so i got there to take two advils and a glass of water (stupid reason but it worked)

-Unluckily she was cleaning the bathroom(unable to see me) I cough, made a bit of noize with the cup of water and next thing i know, she make a shit of noise, she is in my back with a ''fake smile'' acting like she's cleaning the sink...

-We fluf talked a bit... KINOed her a bit (it was to easy!) she took a bad turn comming back from snowboarding yesterday and completely wrecked her car... three mail box and a stone pillar... (the car is a total lost) i took her hand and put my hand on her shoulder asking if she was alright... Just after, i noticed the earbud so asked for what she was listening and it happend to be a song i liked so much so huged her.

MASSIVE IOI!!! she asked my name!!! (you guy can't even know how happy i was about that ;p) but i made i mistake... i asked her name back... anyway...

could almost hear Mystery screaming -''PULL THE TRIGGER'' but could'nt do it...



Anyway, she told me she is dinning awy from the employe room and i will probably eat with her soon (no cocky joke please ;p i have enough of what is on my mind ;p) So that's it


NOW!!! my plan...

-Run the cube to know more about the personality she have...
-The ring finger routine
-little NEG like... Me looking at her weirdly and scream ;''WHAT THE FUCK IS HAPPENING TO YOUR FACE!!! '' nah JK ;p MORE like looking at her and scratching my theeth like i want her to notice a pepper piece on her theeth...
-KINO!!! Telling her she have some thing on her hand, taking the hand upper over her head, makin her spin and give her a cube* like it was stuck on her hand ;p

* the cube is in fact an origami that unfold into a rose.

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Thank's again for your support guys ;p

what do you mean by show a different facade?