Alright here's my situation. My friend's girlfriends friend who is a HB8 has said she's interested in me, etc. Anyways, I didn't really care much for her other than looks and in all the situations we were in it was awkward to talk to her (movie theatre, I find talking during films to be rude) and she's very shy. ANYWAYS, I think I built attraction by not really talking to her, and since then I hadn't really said much to her, but adressed the rest of the group. Also, she's given me a lot of IOIs, laughs at all my jokes regardless if they're funny, plays with her hair whenever I'm talking, always tries to sit near me, makes suggestive comments, etc. I did this before I even knew much about pick up. So I believe attraction and comfort are in place. I was told recently next time she was down (she lives in Toronto, i'm in Ottawa) that she wanted me to take her out, this was said to my friends girlfriend. I'm curious how I should go about this, and how I should escalate into seduction, because overall I haven't really adressed her much but I find this situation to be semi-awkward. Thanks guys!

So, anyone have any ideas? Thanks!

ha ya its obvious this girl is totally into you if everything you have said is correct. she even asked for you to take her out thats like just beggin for it. just go, do what u have been doing, shell keep lovin it and by the end of the night shell be in your arms

Just dont let her keep doing this, she will eventualy lose intrest, so isolate my friend


Had a similar situation and i thought i'd leave it, was getting amazing IOI's and by the end of the night when i wasnt showing any intrest she wasnt either, opps my mistake :S

You can avoid having to ask her out on a 'date' by getting your friend and his girlfriend to go out with you and they can ask her to come along (which i'm sure she will, if she really likes you).

Then just go to a bar or club whatever and isolate her, maybe your friend can leave early with his girlfriend and you say "i think we'll stay a little longer"

But then again you can just man up and call her/text her/facebook her whatever, and say "hey i heard you were coming to town, we should hang out" it's really direct and most people here don't go direct like this, but you already know she likes you so this will work as well.