Hi guys

First post, been reading around quite a bit, i feel i have semi-decent understanding of game and theory however I dont have much practice and I have a feeling of anxiety and unconfidence with myself.

Issue at hand: There is a girl iv been pretty sexual with (just did not have sex) that i am meeting on tuesday with her mates at a club. I don't really know her much at all, we met through friends and we had a random hookup over new years. I saw her a couple times out since new years where there was hardly any interaction at all, i guess i wussied out. However she been initiating alot of chat on fb with me and what not and she been sounding keen to hook up again.

My one mate who is quite clued up in the field says its a done deal, we've hooked up alrdy, she clearly sounds keen, i can't go wrong... yet i still feel insecure. I need some tips about how i should conduct myself or possibly some mental shift i need to make or a state of mind i need to take out with me. Been reading chiefs post about his game and how u wanna focus on the sexual attraction mainly as opposed to DHV's etc, i like the sound of this (given this particular case and the fact that it sounds more like my type of game), but i need some specific exmaples.
I wanna get this girl home with me? How do i do it?
Any advise guys?

Thanks alot.

What's up sage?

From what you're telling us, it sounds like a done deal but those feelings of insecurity are understandable. If you want to focus on sexual attraction I suggest studying the Shock and Awe method by Ciaran which can be easily found on google. Chief has a thread in this forum about Sexual Attraction and the 3 things you should focus on. He also has a link to the Gunwitch Method where Gunwitch talks about sexual state. I highly recommend studying these and rehearsing or practicing them

Go get em tiger!

~Dare~

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--Building your confidence

I think what would help a lot is knowing that you know how to show a girl a good time, this in itself will build a lot of needed confidence, especially for this type of situation (There is already attraction and she is clearly interested)

Once you are confident in this and go out showing this girl a good time (This is as easy as just having a really good time yourself - its contagious) she will naturally be attracted to this confident fun guy.

You need to hang around friend girls, if you haven't got friend girls, get some. Girls are fun to go out with, build your confidence and great for DHV (Especially hot friend girls )

-- Getting the girl home--

- this obviously depends on how the night went:

I think the best way to do this without blatantly asking her "do you wanna come home with me" is to entice her with something fun and seemingly harmless .

"Come to my place to smoke some hubbly, I blow mad smoke rings!" - Seem excited about whatever you are wanting to do with her, as if that is the real reason you want her to come. I might even look at her and say... "But don't try anything sneaky! (and give her a smile)" (I think this is push//pull technique)

just remember: The game is already over! She is too keen for words and you have already closed her... Its going to take special effort to mess this up and if she doesn't come home with you on the first night. DON'T WORRY and DON'T try force issues, there will be a million other chances! Remember... YOU ARE THE MAIN!

Anyone please feel free to rectify me if I'm incorrect on any of this as I am a novice.