Evening all, ok heres my situation with this current HB10

so this girl, I've known her for about 2 years, VIA facebook :/ ... throughout the two years, there have been mutual comments back and forth, very very minimal talks if any etc etc, very simple.

her character is amazing, as GORGEOUS as she is, and im talking GORGEOUS, shes very very down to earth, great heart, always accepting compliments and not being stuck up about how great she is even though she is, just u know a REALLY good genuine person, I could go on and on, etc but I think you guys understand my point


now here is what has gone down so far, exactly a month ago, I asked her to go with me to a taping of a late night show here in LA with me that we both love, she immediately said yes, the day came, we both went ( in our own cars). Met up, and waited till the show started, during the hour ish we had, spoke, talked about stuff , and it was all real like you could feel it.

Since im head over heels for this chick, I kept freezing up while waiting for the show a few times, there was even silences for maybe 10 -15 seconds before the convo continued blah blah, show ended, then we left.

now its happening again guys and here is where I need the help , this is whats going on :

the past month, no texting, although just twitter / minimal FB responses here there, tomorrow I am once again gonna be going to a taping of that show again, I told her about it a few days ago, she went completley excited and is gonna be comming with me.

She just sent me a Direct message on FB asking : hey whats going on for tomorrow / also can I have your home addy ?

what do you think that means literally , and any advice or topic suggestions you guys can give me so I don't freeze up tomorrow, I know this is gonna sound lame but I REALLY feel like I love this girl genuinely, it may be just emotions but still.


any help, feedback, suggestions, or if u have a question for me please ask! need all the help I can get

Bouncer

just a quick Update, just spoke to her over AIM and to note some stuff :


reason for wanting my address was to send out Xmas Cards

I also asked her if she was willing to meet up early for either lunch or coffee before the show and she said she is down to do that.

she also said she wants to get there an hour before the scheduled check in time , im thinking cuz of the line we gotta wait ? or could it be possible at all that she wants some time etc etc?


please help!!!

I think she's interested in you, but here's the deal.

If you do love her you want to give her what she wants. Right?

And this is a confident (and, I think, in this particular girl's case) kind hearted man.

I have no advice on being confident other then this, just pamper yourself, make sure you look as good and COMFORTABLE as you can. Being comfortable in your skin is halfway through confidence.

And then.

Relax. It's not the end of the world.

Maybe before you leave the house you can make a list to yourself what your top ten qualities.

This will remind yourself of the excellent person you are.

Take care,

Attractor.

I appreciate that Attractor much!

I think the only thing im worried of is the amount of talking that I need, such as what to ask what to discuss, not running into those silent moments, cause now we are gonna meet up for a local spot to get some coffee, then go there, so in total there is gonna be 6 + hours of togetherness

I just need some PUA material as far as list of stuff to talk about, or suggestions

Browse the internet for stuff. Interesting, conversation holding stuff...think of some material that requires no criteria to use to fill in the awkward moments.

I like scientific discoveries, and weird people. Interesting to me, generally interesting to others.

Hey man I'm new to this stuff as well...but here is some stuff that works well for me: Make her jump through some hoops next time in a playful manner...make her work for your home address a little bit you know? You can apply this to a bunch of stuff! But don't overdue it. And always have a playful confident cocky somewhat sarcastic voice when you say it.

HER: "Can I have your home address?"
YOU: "HMMM...I don't know last time I gave my address out to a girl without knowing her to well she kept comming over to try to sing to me outside my window at night. I lost out on my beauty sleep! But your not that kinda girl right??"
HER: "HAHA of course not..{blah blah}" or "HAHA maybeeee!"

Mindlessly tease her then eventually give it. She now knows your playful. Additionally it may cause her to qualify herself to you! Which means you own the conversation and its a good thing.


As for stuff to talk about search the internet for real good topics.

If your in a pinch and need something playful:
ultimate-list-of-qs-to-ask-and-or-conve ... 38684.html

But those questions are really really random so have follow up the question with a funny reason your asking and try to relate the question to her or something you have done etc.

Goodluck man!