So I meet all these hotties at school and get their numbers. I Always text them later that night. Is it possible that making the first contact a phone call would that be more meaningful? I feel I'm ruining all these perfect situations by maybe sounding a little bit desperate. I feel like they always have an excuse not to chill. Or maybe I'm just being paranoid. So I ask if they would be down another night on and on and on. Some still sound interested but with all these numbers I get only two are still wanting to go out .

Advise would be greatly appreciated!

Hey there...

I've had the same problem in the past, and the real issue with texting, e-mails, you name it, is that they are ALL something to hide behind because of the fear of rejection....We like to think of them as communication tools, but they tend to screw things up more than help...

My advice, forget the texting until AFTER you've developed attraction....and answer simply to any text she might send you..you shouldnt be typing long texts, remember, you're the alpha, you dont have time for that....

From now on, whenever I get a girls number, I call her, include her in an event that I'm "already doing", and then end the contact...any text thereafter I tend to ignore...

Best of luck bro!