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| BadolzoN | PostPosted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 4:24 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Mon Aug 10, 2009 6:50 am Posts: 831 | | I'm a nice guy and this girl is obsessed with me and she's friends with girls I potentially wanna hook up with.
I kind of led her on but I don't really find her THAT attractive just she seemed like a good fuck every now and then.
But now she wants a relationship and her friends are telling me to tell her if I really like her.
I don't, I've never even touched her, but I just kind of led her on because I like to have animals in my stable just in case I get hungry.
How do I tell her to fuck off nicely?
Any other guys with this problem? _________________ THIS USER HAS BEEN BANNED FOR BREAKING RULES 2, 3, 8, AND 9
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| Tony Gleezon | PostPosted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 7:30 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jul 29, 2009 5:34 am Posts: 6 Location: Melbourne, Australia | | I've been in a similar situation at a young age. First of all, understand that 100% of what is being said between her friends and yourself is getting back to her, either right away or eventually will down the track.
Now looking back on my situation, it helps if you are a nice guy because she won't feel as hurt. Work something like : "Look, I've been doing alot of thinking. Your a great chick and all and if we were 20 years down the track I would be thinking about it differently, but at the moment I think it would be best if we were only friends."
If she gets upset and angry at you personally, come back with "all I can offer you is a friendship that'll last longer than a relationship anyway. Take it or leave it." If she is obessed with you she will take anything she can get and think the friendship is a good idea, if she gets turned off then you don't have to worry about her anymore. Win-win.
Distance yourself from her and move onto her friends. This will get easier over time if you can be fucked.
Hope that helped,
Tony.
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| Mike Lowrey | PostPosted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 8:45 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Mon Jul 20, 2009 10:41 am Posts: 184 | | Best way is to just be honest with her here
If she mentions something relationship wise tell her you aren't interested in her that way / a relationship.
If she brings up the leading on thing, just say you guess you're just a flirty person with most people.
I don't see her letting down unless you just tell her nothing will happen!
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| BadolzoN | PostPosted: Sat Aug 15, 2009 2:39 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Mon Aug 10, 2009 6:50 am Posts: 831 | | Thanks!
Good advice.
I'll try it when I feel like talking to her.
I rarely talk to her anymore.
Kind of don't feel like it. _________________ THIS USER HAS BEEN BANNED FOR BREAKING RULES 2, 3, 8, AND 9
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