| Apparently, the sound of a person's name is the most pleasant sound to that person - in any language - as long as it's not overdone like some sales pitch.
Do people ever forget your name? Doesn't that annoy you?
Recently I was in a grocery store and I paused to text on my phone. Someone walked by me and say "Oh hi Legion!".
I looked up, saw a girl I knew from about 3 or 4 years back - I'm thinking, what the fuck is her name? - and just replied "Oh hey, how are you, how's it going?"
It was pretty obvious I didn't remember her name. I felt like a prick. Two seconds later, I remembered it.
But I've been in this situation too - where I'll see someone I haven't talked to in ages and I'll remember their name, but they'll look at me and sort of stall/stutter, as my name isn't coming to them.
Sometimes, to avoid this, I won't mention that person's name, and just say "hey". _________________ The “Four Fs” are the four basic drives that animals (including humans) are evolutionarily adapted to be good at: fighting, fleeing, feeding, and reproduction.
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