i need help building comfort with this cute girl.

i met her at the gym we had great convo and asked for her name at the end. the next day i added her on FB. so afterwards IM'ed her within a 2 week span and finally made plans to have lunch a week after the convo we had online.

I created more comfort by texting her that morning and later she texted me an hour before lunch if we're still having lunch because she ate a big breakfast that day. i thought nothing of it thinking she's trying to see what i'd say or do. so i negged her on it and asked her to meet up with me to play some pool.

now GET THIS we PLAYED 5 rounds with no kino IOI's or signs of attractions. i made some moves but she never really bit back. so afterwards i was like that's it game over.

but she still im's me almost everyday as if she still wants me. she's usually the 1st to initiate a conversation on aim but expects me to carry the rest the whole way. i don't know what to do with her?

my friends say she wants me to F-close her but how can i when i don't know how she feels. she seems girlfriend material so i'm concerned about the risk factor there.

Help me out guys rep points for any and all replies.

hmmm....

as I read this here was my first thought why the hell not? thats your job.. not hers....

without knowing for sure, it sounds like you might be sending mixed signals here...

so invite her out... why freeze her out if she is trying to set something up with you?

set something up and go out... this time AMP the attraction like there is no tomorrow (cus there might not be)
kino kino kino... be sexy be whatever...
just keep the esclation going.

and see how far that gets you...
if you had to ask me it sounds like your on the verge of a LJBF, but without knowing all the dynamics I'm not sure.

JMT,
Lucky

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150 people are killed every year by Falling Coconuts.... 10 by Shark Attack.

I couldn't find any stats on death from approaching a woman.

risk factor? what are you ultimately looking for, a lay or a relationship?

and if she initiates conversation with you, thats a good thing. an IOI. i forget who said this but "its your job to make the conversation fun. if shes boring, thats your fault."

if she didnt bite back on some of your attempts on kino then it was your fault..

do small compliance tests then lead up to kino..

-cool handshake
-pinky love
-thumb wrestling
-subtle touches to her arm