Hey guys. So i've been hangin out with this one girl for about a week. We've just been studyin together.. haven't really got any time together to "hang" out. We were actually going to go ballroom dancing on friday but it was cancelled by her because of a legit reason. She had mentioned earlier that she would take me out to dinner to check out some restaurants. So i think i'm going to ask her to do that this upcoming week. But i'm not really sure if she thinks of me as a potential mate. She has called me "really nice" in the past a few times... which is not good. Any advice..

Description of girl: In to sports, very school dedicated. Doesn't drink of smoke.(Which is good cause those are all things that we both have in common.) She is a really nice girl.. which is why it's hard to figure out if she likes me or not.

I had also told her that I was not specifically looking for a girlfriend right now, but if the right girl came up, I definitely would go for it. And then, I had asked her if she was looking for a relationship at this time... she responded by saying that she was kind of talking to another kid, but she doens't really know whats going on with that... and also said that she's keeping her options open...

In the past week, we have spent a lot of time together... if she's not sleeping or in class, she's usually at the gym or studyin with me....I hope I am not in the friend zone already cause I really do like this girl... but any advice????

if she talks to you about her pursuing another guy, it could mean 1 of 2 things:

1: she thinks of you as one of her girlfriends. not good
2: she wants you to be bold and make a fucking real move already. learn cocky funny dude. dont be scared to get sexual with her. thats a key

Captrow is right. you need to start the attraction stage. If she pulls out that "nice guy" thing again, come back with something like

1. So you think I'm a nice guy huh? well i'm sorry to break it to you, but i'm the guy your mother warned you about. (cocky funny with a confident smile.)

2. so you think i'm nice? i guess you think you're a pretty good personality reader huh? (then say something about how you're psychic too and run a routine)

the main point is building attraction, and don't act to needy, make her chase you

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