What's up PUA community! So I've been in and out of the forums for some time now and had a question about how to proceed next.....since this has never happened to me before. So I met this girl at work and we started talking and hit it off pretty well. So after a few minutes of talking I went ahead and asked her for her number so that we could hang out sometime. She gave it to me and we decided to grab breakfast one morning and then made plans to grab drinks later in the week. We went out later in the week grabbed drinks and kissed a bit at the end of the night after I dropped her off. A week later we decide to hang out again and this time I told her I was taking her to the beach (she picked me up).....we go to the beach grab some drinks and she decides to get us a kayak so we kayak around the beach for an hour and come back and lay on the sand and just start kissing (nothing heavy). All throughout the day she's holding my hand and finally she takes me home and drops me off and we kiss again. She tells me she's going out with her friends later that night to a party so I tell her to have fun blah blah blah. So it's been three days since I've talked/text this girl last.I haven't text her back but the last thing I think I told her was something along the lines of "have fun this weekend, don't do anything I wouldn't do " and this was the night we hang out and the night of the party with her friends. She hasn't text me back and so I don't know if I should even bother to text her again or if I should just move on and forget about this chick. Sorry for the long-ish post but any advise or insight would be awesome!!! Thanks!!! =]

Keep it up with this girl you have a lot of time invested.

She is however probably put off that you guys haven't had sex yet. Do you always go dates and dates without hooking up? She might not want to see you again and I would think that is probably the reason. It is also likely she is still interested and you should play it off like no big deal.

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Text her again. Escalate in a natural way if you meet up with her again. Some girls have a threshold if you don't make a move and they just give up.

Sweet! Thanks for the advice fellas! Should I give her a call or send her a text.....? Like OceanX said I'll play it cool and send her something like this "Hey just got back from the gym.....a girl asked me to spot her while she did some squats and it reminded me of you. How've you been?" (We had talked about guys spotting girls at the gym while they squatted if it was weird or not). Or should I just call her?

And to answer DW-Heart-Charmers question I guess it depends on the girl and the situation. There's girls I can f-close on the first date and others I never get to f-close even after taking them out for 3-4 dates. I think the biggest thing is I don't have my own place and when I do F-close it'll either be in my truck or at a hotel that's nearby the place we've been hanging out. I also think I gotta start being more aggressive with women and not be afraid of escalating. I kinda stopped going out for a year and a half since I had a few f-buddies I could get sex from but that got boring and lame so I'm back lol. I shouldn't have stopped going out so now I feel like I have to build my confidence up again.

Your text sounds fine. Just re-initiate contact with her. See if she replies.

Coo! Thanks OceanX. I'll keep you guys updated. It's funny because with this girl I'm actually "trying" to go out of my way to hang out with her and she's the one chick that doesn't text back lol

One thing I have learned is : all chicks are different when it comes to texting and contacting !

I'm dating four girls right now and one is texting me about everything that's happening with her,another will not text me for 3 days but when I text her I just ask her to hang out and she'll happily agree. One girls wants your attention always, other girls are busy or just not so big on texting all day , every day.

I would just directly ask her out: Hey , when are you free to get together,I'd love to see you. Let's make dinner at my place, you need to bring the wine though ( smiley is optional)

Either she says yes which is good : Have a good time ,escalate naturally and hook up with her. It's really that simple. Stop waisting your time and be a man. If it was up to you you would have slept with her on the first date.

If she says no: perfect, on to the next one. Lesson learned: you should have escalated earlier.

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Read that and decide whether or not its worth it.

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