ok so I'm trying to figure out my next move here. This 10 knows I'm what she would call a "player". I have even been with two of her pretty close friends. I would say forget it and move on but she invited me over about a week ago...

I had been working on her through texts and when I would randomly see her when I was with her brother (my good friend)

One evening I get a text from her "wyd". She engaged the convo, it was around 3 o'clock. Long story short we both end up busy until around 10 o'clock so she just asked to hang out a bit.
(Btw shes 20 still in college & I'm 24 out of college, don't know if that matters)
We got the living room to our selfs sat on the same couch. Had great convo, shared some laughs, threw in some kino....She told me her mom loved me. lol She also mentiond her friend when I first showed up saying "if Maddy knew you were here she would kill me" Everything seemed to be heading in a positive direction and now she went dark knight on me (as in stopped texting me & snapping)

She is a very flirty girl. At the same time had a bf for 4years & then one for 7 months in which she just ended a relationship with. I'm getting the vibe that she's not going to fuck with me because of my past with her friends and how she thinks of me as this player. What would be my next move to show her I want to actually date her not just fuck her.

First of all.. This ^ is why she went Dark Knight.

Some player.

Read this link: viewtopic.php?f=25&t=190620

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Her friend #1 thinks you're a player.
Her friend #2 thinks you're a player.

You are treating this girl like you want to be her boyfriend after she has a different image of you. Easy to figure out why she's gone cold. You're way to easy for her.

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I didn't tell her I wanted to just date her. Idk if you miss read that or not. I was telling you guys that. Anyway I can take criticism. I mean after all this forum is for everyone to share story, gain knowledge, and ultimately get better. So I can obviously see know that I may have went soft on this girl & now she probably does have it in her head she can have me which is why I'm letting it sit for awhile. I realized I fucked up which is why I asked what would my next move be. So any advise on how to flip the script back around on her?

I didn't say you told her. It is you ATTITUDE. And your ATTITUDE is being projected it whether you're outright saying it or not.

You don't have to tell me you're mad at the world for me to look at your attitude/behavior and draw that conclusion.

And to answer your question; I sent you a link.

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