HI Guys,

This is the first friend zone blow out in quite some time, due to Failures in my text game.
The thing is this girl (HB10) and I share the same social circle through my Church and we have been acquaintances for a couple of months now.I'm 30 and shes 20. Nearly all the girls in this group would love for me to ask them out but the are only 7s and 8s. I rarely game Church girls as they are hard work and take a long time to escalate and not come off looking like a creep. I'm good looking and fit and I know that she likes me. I don't give her that much attention and she usually comes over to me.

There has been definite iois and plenty of flirting. I number closed her on Sunday and asked one too many questions texting on Monday and got friend zoned when setting up the coffee date. I was trying to keep it light and flirty.

My last text was " strawberries or chocholate?" not great I know but I had an idea where to take it.

After going silent for two days she text me this morning with this long as response to my earlier txts from a few days ago:

"Hi, Sorry for not replying sooner-just thought I'd clear up something. I'm not sure if your just a really nice guy hence your text, but if its more then I just want to make sure we are on the same page as im not looking for anything more than a friendship with you. Either way I hope this doesn't make it awkward.

I didn't reply as I was busy in a work meeting then an hour later she sent me this:

"Still happy to have a coffee with you though:) maybe we could organise a group and go and hang out sometime during the mid semester break, and goodie goodie gumdrops(ice cream) instead"

(Semester break is in two weeks).

My questions are:

Can I flip this Friend Zone shit on its head from here?

What do i need to do text game wise to improve? Should I text a response?

Is there a hint of LMR from her to setting up the date? If so any suggestions.

I get the impression she needs her friends validation before dating me, and maybe this is a long game plan or I am already out and have the added challenge of the friends zone to deal with.

I have two ideas on how to move forward.

1) Pull back and carry on gaming her friends.

2) Allow my self to be friends zoned, hang with her and use it as an opportunity to game her friends. Later attempt a break from the friends zone.

Let me know your thoughts. I could use a Alpha guru to help with this. You have to be on lock when gaming HB10's she is stunning and has personality. I hope I didn't pedestal her for even a second which I may have done lol.

Hey guys, I don't care about the outcome so post your thoughts on this.

Move on.

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