So rule #1 don't hit on a girl's looks i know that but there 's some cases where i guess i have to . Let's say midway through with her i notice she's insecure about her body and looks ... Could I then compliment her ? Ok let's say she wore something trashy and showed half her tits to everyone because she chose the worst top ever , could I compliment her chest as a neg or something ?

For some reason so many guys think that they're not allowed to compliment women. It's okay to compliment a woman as long as you are capable of not allowing the things that you are complimenting her about control how you act around her.

If you are complimenting her to satisfy her insecurities, you're not really doing anything to help your situation out with her. I'd argue that it's better to not acknowledge anything that she's insecure about for the most part.

If I were you, I'd stay away from the negs. The example that you are using makes me think you'd shoot yourself in the foot if you tried.

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Well I base myself on Mystery , he did say I can compliment a girl but not based on her looks . The whole qualification sceme of hook and release or whatever . why is boosting morale soo frowned upon by the way , girls get soo happy when I compliment them on insecurities .Neging is sooo hard to use these days , most insecurities start from failed negs these days. Calling girls cows or something . I prefer boosting morale to shooting myself in the leg , you are right about that .

If something is working for you, why ask the question? But to answer your question, if you compliment an insecurity you are rolling the dice on her response to it and it can end up positive or negative. If you don't acknowledge it, you don't lose any points nor do you gain anything.

Again, if it works for you...don't let my opinions influence how you act around women. In fact, I would encourage you to write a post detailing how you do it in order to help other guys out.

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I base myself on MM as well, yet the occasional time comes where complimenting strictly on looks is fine. However, I do prefer to use something a bit more ambiguous such as "You have an awesome style" or "Such an eccentric energy about you." Girls put a lot of time into defining their style so sometimes that can be more of a hook point than "You have great tits..."