First thing about me, I have 6 months of experience in PUA. I had over a 100 of rejections so far. I am 30 years old. Had only 2 girlfriends who didnt last long. I had never number closed until this last Friday.
I used to study psychology for 2 years. Used to do sales..and I know some social engineering because I work as a hacker. I am from Israel now, originally from Russia. My approach involved my natural style.. but it failed me, then I watched mystery's/style's material and now I am trying to come up with my own model. Last Friday, after following some of mystery's advice, I number closed a German girl (9/10).

I was walking in the city again in the morning while waiting for some meeting.
I saw a sexy girl who walked out of some traveling agency. She looked like Russian to me..so I didnt start speaking with her cause of the lack of my russian proficiency. Suddenly a man approached her and he started talking in English, then I got curious and approached her naturally. I started the conversation, almost got cold feet, but at the end I was able to pull it off and talked to her for 40 mins (Mystery said that a solid number close is 40 mins). The only mistakes that I made were that I didnt kino enough, was a bit unconfident at times and left the scene too early cause I had a meeting to attend.

She gave me her facebook too. The situation now is that I prefered to communicate over facebook, since she gave me some german number that I have no idea how to dial to to reach her phone..but that isnt the issue... she didnt flake and has been talking to me on facebook so far.

I am trying to meet her in real life and travel with her to wherever she is planning to go tomorrow (she uses her time to travel). I prefer now the direct approach without trying to build attraction.. simply ask her if I can join her.

Some charactaristics about the girl: she seems to be in her early 20's, she is naive and reciprocates easily, she is easy going (I have no idea if she is sexual).

2 problems facing me:
1) I saw that she had a ring.. on her finger.
2) On Saturday, she met another guy and she said she had a few drinks with him (.. omfg, just a day after I number closed. I dont know if she says the truth and even if she does, I really doubt that on Saturday some experienced pick up artist got her laid...).

Things are going downhill a bit now. 2 days have been past and she starts to forget me. Today I grilled her with questions about who did she date on Saturday and why we cant meet in person. She said that she doesnt mind that I join her (that doesnt gurantee that we will meet) and she didnt answer the second question about the guy she dated..!

Whats my game plan, right now?

I developed my end game plan. This is how it goes.

1) At our first encounter I didnt talk about her at all.. and she is from a different country,,..so I will be asking her questions.
2) I will talk about relevant things that I observe and listen to what she says. I am going to qualify her a bit..
3) I am going to be playful and funny as much as I can.

When I am with her on a more serious level, I am going to talk about my relationships with my family and how I never got attached to them. Then I am going to tell her that I havent met many people who share my values and I feel a bit connected and that I enjoy her company.

After that or on a later occassion. I will tell her my life experience as a child and how I was playing everyday with friends and life was fun because there were no limitations being felt (as opposed as it is when you are an adult).
Then I will tell her a bit about the games that I used to play when I was a child.
I will teach her 2 games (one is a simple hands game and the other one is thumb wrestling) <- that will allow some kino.

Then I will do a kiss close routine. I will tell her that there is one game that is most exciting and we didnt play it. - It is truth of dare. In my routine there will be no dare part.
Each will ask 5 questions.
My questions will be:
1) Whats the most bizzare thing that you were?
2) What would you do with your life if the world ended in 2 weeks?
3) If you were a superhero, what super power would you like to have?
4) When was the last time you cried or were very happy? ( I am not sure about that question)
5) Do you feel connected to me? Do you feel like kissing me?


All of what I outlined was never field tested... could you help me to pick holes in my approach and advice me in general?

Hey man,
first off, congrats! I think you're on the fast-track to success. Each time you get rejected, you should try to learn something. Much of the time, there's nothing to learn from it, but always replay the occasion and try to learn from it.

I think you may be a little too thought out. Be prepared to deviate from your plan. It's good to have a few ideas, but you'll need to be spontaneous as well.

Some feedback on your plan:
You might want to rethink asking her about her encounter with the other guy. Ask her about the ring when you see her to see if there's a story (or if she's married), but it's not really any of your business, and strategically, it hurts you if you ask about her other romantic encounters. You want to appear as if you are so comfortable with yourself that it doesn't matter if she sees other men, because you're awesome. Asking about what she's up to with other men will lead to her being uncomfortable, and will lead to her thinking you are insecure.

Bring kino into the equation very quickly, and reward her good behaviour with more kino and more good body language. Don't ask her to play games with you. Just play them. If she says something dubious, reach out with your hand as if to ask her to shake it; then go to carpal kiss, and play thumb war. Do this early, not after she has qualified herself. You want it to appear as if you are just a touchy guy.

Don't follow her on her travels like a puppy. Be the leader. Suggest destinations and attractions that you want to see.

In future, don't close a girl before letting her qualify herself. Otherwise it appears that you're only interested in her body.

Your questions are OK, but it would be better if they were contextual.

The childhood stuff is OK if you want her to have a feeling of connection, but does nothing to establish your value. Try to work some value spikes into the conversation, but be careful not to come across as insecure or braggy.


Good luck!