Ok, so I met this girl one month ago at one of my friends birthday ( she is an 8.5 ) . We talked, and on our way home ( we all traveled by train ) she asked me if she could rest her legs on me and I was like, ok. We stayed like this for one hour.

Two days later, I contacted her on internet and two days later after that, she gave me her phone number.
We texted for like 3 hours every night. On the second night of texting she suddenly invites me to her birthday which was to be made 5 days later. ( in the start, i told her i coudn't because i would'we felt awkard not knowing her that well but I decided to go, that would be the Day 2 ) .

At her birthday party, we danced, we had fun. Later at the party, when we were all tired, she comes to me and sits on my lap, while I was caressing her and resting my head on her boobs. When I left the party, she told me to stay a bit more but I couldn't, because I had to go to University which is in another city ( 2 hours train ) . At the party, she told me she wants to visit the city where I stay ( we are from same hometown but I study in another city ). During the time between the party and her visit to my city she sent me a photo of her ass and one of her in sexy body suit, whereas asking me if I was a virgin and telling me she was still a virgin ( she also told me that she is kinda sad that she is a virgin, and wants someone to fuck her hard ) .

Finally, she came here in my city for the day, we visited stuff, showed her the city. On our way back home, we were alone in the train compartment, and she seemed distracted, not showing the same affection like before, so I started to grab her and hold her close while she was reading a book. In the last 30 minutes of the train trip, i built up the courage to try to kiss her. When I tried, she stopped me and told me that she isn't ready to make a decision ( that I would do myself harm, that she is a bad person and she doesn't want to get attached because she doesn't want to get hurt and stuff like that ) and placed her head on my lap. In the remaining time of the trip we continued to talk and laughed and all, while she rested her head on my lap while i was caressing her. This really confused me. and i mean really hard. 4 Days passed from and we are still texting. In two days I'm going home from University, I want to meet her ( she has school from the afternoon to night ).

How do I keep continuing with her and succesfully kiss her.
Have I done something wrong ?

You waited too long to kiss her. She has put you into a slight friend zone.

Tell her "come here, give me your hand". Face to face, your toes pointing towards her. Hold eye contact. Take her hand and put them on your shoulders. Go in for the kiss. If she resists, back off. Don't force it. You're a man, you're doing what you're supposed to do. So have no fear.

Come back and let us know how it goes.

Your overthinking that's normal. Next time you see her don't even say hi just kiss her on the lips dont ask for permission. Be a man she will appreciate it.

If you want to kiss a girl, you want to build up the things towards the kiss, and not just grab her and kiss her.

Here's a cool technique I call the MOVIE KISS that I use when I want to kiss a girl.

The reason I call it the MOVIE KISS is because when you do it, it feels like it's done from a movie.

When you're sitting next to her, touch her hair gently and say, "Wow your hair are so soft..." and then look at her lips.

If she smiles and likes it, then say, "Let me see if they smell nice too..." and slowly lean in towards her neck, and
smell her hair. Take a gentle breathe in, don't be breathing like a horny horse behind her neck.

You'll notice she'll get really turned on. Then you can slowly put your lips on her neck - but be very
gentle, and blow into her ear.

Then get close to her lips, and say, "You know, I never kiss first...I can get really close to your lips, and you
may even think I'm about to kiss you, but I never kiss first..."

Build that anticipation, and then very slowly touch her lips with your lips and kiss her.

She's going to say something like, "O you said you never kiss first..." at which you reply "I lied..." and you wink
at her.

The important thing to remember when doing the Movie Kiss is to take things slowly...don't be afraid to advance
and move in...and communicate total control over the situation.

Don't get nervous, just allow the emotion that you feel to transfer onto her.

Try it, and let me know how you did,

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