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PostPosted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 2:04 am 
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At about 12:00am in Jacksonville Florida my friend and I left to hangout with his girlfriend, her roommate and her friend who I had hung out with once at the club before but never really talked to and didn't like after our first encounter. I'll refer to her as Jessica although this isn't her real name I had to pick them up from their college and I stopped to pick up drugs on the way. It was about 1:20am by the time we got to UNF. (if I had known we were going out there tonight I would've gotten everything much earlier and left at least an hour earlier) unfortunately this was not in my control which is an amateur mistake. When they got in the car I was surprised to hear the roommate decided to stay in and that Jessica had recently broken up with her boyfriend before Valentines day. We left and headed straight to a hookah lounge which was no longer letting people in by the time we arrived. So we Google searched the closest pool hall and drove in that direction. On the way their we were blaring trap music, I wasn't expecting us to have the same taste in music and let her take over DJing when my phone died. Before arriving at the pool I got pulled over by a cop for having my headlight out which I need to get fixed asap so that doesn't happen again. I told Jessica to hide the drugs in her tits, thinking a cop is less likely to search her than me considering my prior records. She refused and I hid it on my person. I was very respectful to the cop and he let me go without a ticket or warning. We got to the pool hall and all did key bumps. This was her first time doing coke by itself and she was enthusiastic about the experience. Afterwards we tried going into the pool hall which was closed. We all wanted to turn up so I suggested to drive to a pool hall which was far but 24hrs, I offered to drop them off at their dorms if they didn't want to go but Jessica was the first to refute that idea. When we got to the pool hall we played a few rounds of pool starting with girls versus guys teams suggested the girls. After the first game I had her come make a playlist with me, this was the first opportunity I had to isolate her cause she knew I respected her taste in music. She didn't wait for me to finish picking songs to leave though, but once I was done I returned to the table to find the balls set up and ready to play. We played a game of pool and had regular small talk while our friends were fighting. I tried to put in some Kino by showing her how to shoot but she wouldn't allow it, I could tell she wasn't ready. We left the pool hall and went to the waffle house across the street to eat. Our friends stayed in my car to talk things over, so I was able to get alone time with her. We sat down and talked for a minute and wondered if they were going to come in, I told her not to worry about it. I gave her a cold reading telling and she said that everything I said was true and she didn't like that type of thing cause its always right, but the look on her face said she was amazed and intrigued, she averted eye contact. I think it was cause I noticed her reaction. She suddenly became an open book after the reading. She told me about her past relationships (she's been in a lot of long term), weed, we joked about our friends in the car, we talked about our plans for the future and we both agreed black people are way cooler than white people (we're both white). Throughout it I got the impression she was avoiding my eyes. During our talk about relationships I averted eye contact cause I got slightly sentimental to relate to something she said, when I looked up I saw her looking at me, elbows on the table, hands together and half a smile on her face, she looked away almost after a second. Overall our conversation went very well but I regret one thing. I said (with a smile) I was hurt that she didn't remember our first encounter which would've been fine but I took it to far and said I thought of her all night (half true cause I always think about my day before going to bed but she wasn't the focus of my thoughts that night in the least), I knew I fucked up by her face but I recovered from it. The food came out and we ate and agreed the food was dank as fuck. Then our friends joined use right when we were finished eating. I paid for our breakfast and went to the bathroom. Apparently paying really impressed her and my friend reassured her that I don't expect her to sleep with me because of it (I don't) its just who I am. Then we drove back to UNF, she thanked me again and I told her she can get me next time we go out but she had a weird I'm thinking deeply look on her face after that, she made it a lot throughout the night. She gave me a light hug goodbye from my passengers seat and left

Overall It was a fun night and I considered it good Mid-Game practice for where I'm at. That's all I really consider her. I don't know if ill ever see her again but if I do id like to build attraction enough to get her number and go out on a date. I would also like to know what I could've possible done to make her more comfortable with me touching her. So questions? Comments? Advice/feedback?


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PostPosted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 3:03 pm 
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what was right?
1. took date to multiple locations. that's called bouncing.
2. the cold reading actually allowed you to connect with her personally. that's always good. doesn't have to be done with cold reading, but it's good whatever way you do it. you could have even made a game out of it where you got a hug or kiss if you were right.

what was wrong?
1. no kino it seems. you were right to back off at the pool table if she wasn't feeling it. you could have tried again after the cold reading or during the meal (if you sat in the right position).
2. i don't understand why you still have the need for intoxication during these gaming outings. seduction comes from the heart and mind, not a bottle or bag. it's just a bad combination. as you illustrated, it almost ruined your night entirely. what if that cop had been on his game and decided to search a group of young folks with their lights out driving around at 1am? i've gotten pulled over for less.


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PostPosted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 9:08 pm 
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I was sitting across from her at the table and waste able to do much Kino or escalate. And I like the game idea, once I get better at cold reading Ima save it as more of an ace in the hole but she was good practice. But she seemed like a girl that is kinda closed off, so what could I do to make her open up more next time I see her? Also I have trouble doing Kino from the driver seat and don't do any while I'm driving which is what I did for most the night. And Ive been kinda using drugs as a lure which isn't classy in the least so I'm looking for other ways


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 21, 2015 4:02 am 
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morality in when gaming is very important. without it, people get hurt. that's not what gaming is all about. it's about self improvement and developing social skills. it's not learning tricks to get laid, even if there are some gurus who claim such. i think it would be easier for you to just find a prostitute. that would save you alot of trouble.


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 21, 2015 9:10 am 
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That was a misinterpretation on your part and pore wording on mine. I was expecting feedback not judgment. But I thank you for your time


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