So first day in biology the tables are set up in groups of four. Obviously I pick the table with three girls. One of the girls, sitting across from me has these crazy greenish-blue eyes that I just can't stop looking at. Now its the beginning of the semester and i've never picked up a girl in class or anywhere before. At first after class I was going to just say, "Hey lets get some coffee". But then I figured I have no attraction, I also have 13 weeks of class to build that attraction but i'm a total beginner, how do I get this girl attracted to me in a classroom setting? Can you maybe give me a few banter lines or tips of what to say to her to make her a bit more interested? Keep in mind this is a Biology class so if you have any Bio-related lines that's cool.

Sometimes we lock eyes because were facing each other and when we do group assignments and the professor tells our group to read out what we wrote she seems to look at me as if expecting me to read it. Maybe its because i'm the only guy at the table but she seems a bit shy which I love. At first I mistook this as attraction but I don't think the occasional eye contact is enough of a sign that a girl is attracted. Anyway I just try to participate a lot and be kind of a social guy in the group and comment about stupid stuff to her but I need a little more than that.

Do NOT make the mistake of thinking "I have 13 weeks".

You don't have 13 weeks.

She may be seeing someone already. She may have every other guy in that classroom after her - including some guys who actually have some balls and might actually go say something to her instead of acting like a child and making puppy dog eyes at her.

You won't know any of these things if you don't go talk to her.

Grab your sack. Man up and walk over and introduce yourself.

As stated, you don't have 13 weeks. If you don't start building attraction now you're going to be fighting an uphill battle down the road.

You sit next to her, you don't need witty banter. Just start talking to her. If she's being completely silent all the time tell her with a huge smile to not talk so much. Make her laugh and build interest. If she says sorry for being quiet tell her that you're used to it, you have that effect on girls.

Try to get her engaged and having fun. Force her to have a good time.

So i decided to just ask her out. I sat across from her so after class I basically just said
"Hey we should hang out" she said
"Okay" and I said
"I like your eyes" she said
"Thanks" I pulled out my phone and got her number.

I then walked her to her car, well almost. On the way to her car I was just naturally talking to her but as I started running out of things to say and she said "well i'm heading to my car that way" so I just said "alright" and left.

The fact that she ended the conversation is probably bad; I haven't texted her yet, not sure what to text or even where to take her out on a date...I have never been on a date before tbh lol. She is also a commuter 30 minutes away so logistics are also bad...I was thinking I could take her to a bowling alley nearby just the two of us. But would she really drive all the way down here just to go bowling?

What's the issue, then, doing something after class when she's there anyway?

Eliminates the commute.

Any time you get a girls number, and you have to seperate like this as in you're parked in different areas or whatever, you want to say something like "ill text you later to set up a time to hangout" and give her a hug or something. Leave on a high note. Don't leave set when you're being quiet and awkward, ya know.

I have found that is key! Don't leave set when you're awkward and quiet. I feel like that's been the reason some dates might've fallen through for me.

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Never ever think to postpone anything. I did the same thing as you did and it was a huge mistake for me. I feel regret. I met this girl 5 weeks ago one of my class in college, I met her when I had a break time and I approached her when She was smoking. She is the prettiest girl I've met in this semester. She has red hair, green eyes, got some piercings and tall enough.

Two weeks later after I knew about her, I still didn't use any kind of kino escalate. Just normal conversation like what everyone else used. Everytime I saw her she is never approach me, probably because she is scared. But her eyes sometimes starring at me when we are in the class listening to our lecture. I never ask her a time to hang out with me. What a stupid of me!!!

After, 4 weeks ago I decided to take her out at the end of the class. But, everything was screw up after I asked her what's her instagram. I saw her photos, and of her photo she has a photo with a bunch of friends. I clicked every friends tag that she tagged it. And there was a dude that has a some pictures with her one on one. so, that was a sign, And I'm planning to steal it!

Grab a coffee or whatever after class. But yes an interested girl will happily "commute" to meet up with you.

WELL DONE with manning up and asking her out. Perfect way to close in that situation "we should hang out."

I think you're fine here man, having recently come from college myself I understand that it's a completely different arena in terms of game than say in a nightclub out in your mid to late 20's.

Big thing I found in college was that girls are obviously attracted to the traditional funny, confident guy who displays value but the value can come in the form of being that "fun" guy who has something going on, knows where the party is at, brings fun groups of people together. Next party you hear about ask if she'd like to come along with a group of your friends, show her you're a leader by starting the first game of flip cup or whatever party game. Go off at the party and talk to other people then come back to her a little later and be like "Come on I thought you were fun, let's do a shot ... " (Don't get too drunk though!) or if she mentions something about you talking to other girls/ people you can playfully roll your eyes and be like "Oh jeeze are we already getting jealous? You haven't even taken me out to dinner yet girl ..." etc. stuff like that super playful yet you have some off handed negs and confidence meshed in there.

Take everything on this site and other "traditional" PUA sources with a huge grain of salt when it comes to college game, trust me I've learned the hard way. Girls in college are smart and will easily pick you apart if you're too "game-y" for lack of a better term. Use your social circle as a DHV, and use less if any routines at all it won't work in college at all. A good way to also assure her you're not just some college broseph is to also play it cool in class, show her you're actually engaged and care about getting that A (you should be anyways). Obviously flirt when an opportunity presents itself but don't force it during lecture, etc.

Sorry for the long winded response, hope it's helpful like I said I just got out of college myself and learned a lot of these things first hand. Good luck sir!

Great point baloo0. The PUA stuff is almost completely irrelevant when it comes to gaming in college especially during the day. A guy comes off as a gamebot chode if he runs even the most innocuous indirect game on campus.