Hello , well, this is my first post and i wanted to ask what should i do now i've know this girl for like 2 months now we are just friends inside my french class she is very smart she is in college and is one year older than me however the problem i have is that its really hard for me to isolate her because i am one of the most talkatives guys inside my classroom and when the class is over my friends come after me to talk and she goes away with her friend also , she is really talkative but when i try to kino scalate , neg,etc she just stays there staring at me and says nothing which makes everything uncomfortable .... (btw my english is not that good cuz i haven't use it quite a while so soz)

This may sound stalker-ish, but watch where she goes after class one day. Does she walk to another building or classroom? Does she go to her car? Are people normally with her?

Once you know where to best stage yourself, leave class immediately after it is over. She'll linger and people will talk to her and this will give you time to get to where you need to be and set yourself up. She'll eventually make her way to where you are and your paths will cross. Make sure you act like you are oblivious to her intercepting you. Sit there and tie your shoes or stare up at a bulletin board reading the fliers intently. Bury yourself in your cellphone, etc. Then when she walks by, act kind of startled or surprised when you look up for a second and just happen to see her, and use that to start a conversation. You two should hopefully be alone and outside of class which will make taking it to the next level that much easier.

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Well, actually , i have seen her taking a car sometimes , taking a bus , or going with her friend somewhere she is ALWAYS with her friend everytime we see each other i am with my friend or shes with hers, lately i am trying to come early to study to see if shes nearby ( she used to come early but not anymore) i am worried that i am taking too much time and that i am gonna fall in the friendzone thats why i am posting in this forum as i saw a lot of people are having similar issues. Also thanks for the reply.

What do you mean you negged her and tried to escalate and she stared at you ?
So you're already on friendly terms ?

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Do this, just because why the hell not at this point?

Take a piece of paper and hand it to her after you put this on it. Write down on it "Hi Sara, I have a question for you. Can I have your phone number? (Circle one of the answers below.)

1. Yes

2. No (if you select this option, see reverse side of page)

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(reverse side of page)

Why not? I'm a really nice guy.

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Will do what you told me to do puaninja , and yeah , she just kept staring at me with her eyes wide open like i was some freak.

If you've been trying to talk with her and she is looking at you like you are a freak then you need to step back and re-assess what would cause her to do that. You need to ask yourself if other girls do that in your presence and if so then obviously there are some fundamental changes you have to make to your game.

be playful, in a paper write like puaninja said, but don't ask inmediatly her number, instead write something like "hey sara, wanna have some fun?" and draw a tic tac toe game and eventually ask her number. at least i would do that.