Was in library yesterday, semi upset due to all the hw (uni bros unite) so I was in my little bubble. A girl and her friend (the friend was like in her late 30's) sit on the pc next to me and work on a excel project I did a few weeks ago.

I say hi, ask what she's doing offer her help, and after that I played the game PERFECTLY. Idk what it was, but I wasn't needy, I pulled the greatest c&f lines, eased into the first kino lvl, acted playful, etc all just so smoothly. I made sure to keep reading her body lang and she was so comfortable. Just before they were going to leave, her friend in the late 30's suggest we exchange numbers (bro in disguise??) and we did. If it weren't for that I probably wouldn't have summed up the courage myself.

This is what has been said so far

her: thank you for the help
me: u owe me
Her: I still have to do project 2 and its due at midnight wahhhh. But I appreciate your help
me: have ur man do it for u.
her: lol why are you so difficult
me: why are you so difficult :p
her: im not on the contrary I was very nice to you
me: I got you an A, how nicer can I get?
her: (weird winky face/kiss android emote) you were being mean though
me: what days do you have class?
her: My schedule is a bit complicated I have class everyday but this is my only class in X campus I also go to north Y
me: swing by next time, ill take coffee (she mentioned sometime in the library she rly likes coffee)
her: ok ill see you next tuesday :p

After that, I didn't respond. Went to gym and koed. This morning I got a message saying

Her: Hey goodmorning! I hope you have a great day.


So what should be my next move? Ill be honest, I cant remember the last time a girl msged me first, and in the morning AND wished me a good day. This is also a girl my past self would deem waaaaay out of my league.

Im brimming with joy lol.

I was thinking about saying something like

"That's cute. So me and my friends are in a jacuzzi, any ideas on what we should eat afterwards? "

It's going amazing. You don't really need help.

Just keep doing what ur doing. Make sure to build a connection with her at some point. And escalate escalate escalate.

Translation.

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That's the thing, yesterday I just winged it (successfully) cause I was angry (before, not during) and hopped on caffeine lol!

How does pua build connection and escalate? I really don't want to mess this up

That's not very re-assuring. But judging by how you handled it and what you said, I'd say you have it in you to get the girl. It was smooth and fun. Great.

Qualify her first.
Screen her. What kind of girl are you looking for ? Ask her questions relating to that. If her answer impresses you, compliment her. Let her know your impressed. You need to let her know that you like her for reasons that are obvious to her.

How to build a connection.
Open up to her. Talk about yourself, let her talk about her self. Allow yourself to be vulnerable, let her be vulnerable. Share stories about yourself. Express your personality and let her do likewise.

Escalation.
For you, s about doing the two things above. Don't wait around and keep stimulating her and staying in attraction.

Physically escalate. Friendly touches to more romantic type touches.

Side note.
You gotta chill or you will fck it up. Your putting too much pressure on the next interaction by caring so much about the result.

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She's a bunny and you're like a bear with these huge teeth and claws. You don't want to hurt the bunny but you can't help it because you get all worked up and accidentally crush it in your big bear paws.

When you're getting green lights and ioi's then you don't really need to worry about anything. Just do what comes naturally. She obviously already likes you. Game on!

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