Hi All,

Im new to this so please bear with me.

Long story short, I made initial contact with a girl and its going well. Went out for dinner yesterday, cocky funny by me. She did a lot of the talking and I steered. Some kino (she grabbed me and we linked arms while we walked) to the car. Dropped her home but nothing happened.

Today I've been texting her and mentioned points for something she did that i liked. Anyway we've continued on this and she said she wanted a massage. I said she could use her points for that and its was 100 for a standard and 150 for deluxe. She's been scrapping to find points and said she had 90. I said 60.

I then said I was corrupt and that she could get an extra few points for somthing. She's come back and asked whose gonna get the points me or her.

Im sort of flaking out here and this is losing its appeal. I think i could have said somthing more sexual/flirty but Im getting kinda nervous. I dont wanna mess this up.

Help please.

S

Drop the points thing and just ignore it. You have her interest, she is attracted, job well done. Work out logistics to bang this girl. Set up another date, figure out how to get her back to your place (even if it's just "lets get drinks thursday, and we'll swing by my place afterwards.")

Cheers mate,

Think ive sorted this. Dont wanna count my chickens yet though.

I said id let her trade in her points for a voucher, guaranteeing her to a 'jacuzzi avec moi, my six pack (of beers) and some prosecco (extra for the champs). Terms and conditions apply ( you have to wear a bikini) '


She came back saying she didn't wanna give up the massage. I said it could happen in the jacuzzi.

S