I met her some months ago, kinda talk on FB from time to time but the conversations were not fluent.

Last day she uploaded a new profile pic, I liked it and she instantly told me "hey wanna go to this gig tonight?"

We met at the bar, she was with a male friend. We didnt talk too much but after the gig she had to leave because of classes on the next morning. Her friend stayed so I agreed to take her to get a taxi while I was looking out to anywhere to go (another bar).

We talked a lot, got high, she was laughing a lot Id even bet she was having a great time. She would knock my chest with her hand or her head when laughing. She did that multiple times. Sometimes I would even smile at her and she would do the same withouth saying nothing.

Left her at home at 3:00am.

I didnt talk to her the whole next day. Now I watch my msges and she left one "Hey, did someone kill you? lol"

I just replied with "nah im inmoral" (which was a mistake and changed to Inmortal**)

How should I escalate next time? I mean how not to be that "reckless"

Sounds like she likes you. You just had to start putting your hands on her. Look up some stuff on youtube or google on "Kino escalation". If you were sitting and staring silently at one another, that was a time to go for a kiss.

Shes online should I ask her out today? Or should I wait?

Things you know (and if you don't, you should)
1) she likes you. Everything she's done so far should cue you in to the fact that she's attracted to you.
2) she's not playing hard to get. She's taking steps, and pretty big steps that should be pretty obvious to you. She invited you out. She texted first asking where you've been

What's the next step
- keep being yourself but the top of that range. So your most confident self, your most fun self. Basically keep the attraction up.
- meet her and escalate things. Have fun, be stimulative and escalate. Push her a bit, smack her hand. Start flirting. Eye contact. Flirt. Get used to touching her and get her used to your touch. You should be fairly aggressive. Not so much aggressive, but proactive. Touch her in friendly ways. But slowly get close to her. Whisper in her ear. Say I wanna tell u sth, and whisper it. Make private jokes. Whatever it is, escalated, and don't be afraid to do so. She likes you. And we know that
- if you have problems escalating. Here are some things you can do.

Step one. qualify her. Ask her questions about herself. compliment her if her answers impress you
Step two. Give her an SOI at some point. "You know what, you actually have a really sexy personality. Ok maybe not sexy, although it would work too. But whatever is in your personality to say. That's what I would say because I always keep it sexy and sexual. "Your so sexy", "you smell amazing"'etc ...
Step 3. Push her away a bit if you sense it's too intense. It's too much for her. Release her. "Ok just joking actually ur retarded" but not necessarily. If she's totally into to it. Don't need to release tension. Just smile and move on. Don't be afraid of tension. But it's smart to pre emptively release her from tension if she's getting a bit stressed by your compliments.
Step 4. You are now in a very good state with her. You're both openly flirting at quite a romantic level. Enjoy it. Now both of you know there's "something going on" here.
Step 5. Connect with her, let the kiss happen naturally at some point. Doesn't have to be same day. Anytime. Don't have to force shit if you don't want to. People try to get it all done at once cause they're afraid they might screw it up later. Believe that you're a cool person that can handle romance w a woman and just let it flow from here. Check back in if u need more help.

What not to do
- don't get caught up n overthink the Facebook message and text message game.
I know it's exciting to chat and u probably spend ages struggling over what to say and when. You'll end up becoming too low value once you start texting non stop. Chat a bit. Check with how she's doing. Flirt n have fun. But don't get caught up in it. You need to take it easy. When you mis typed immoral. You could have followed up with "I mean immortal, Auto correct ruining my reputation."

Chill out and have fun with it

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thanks for the reply. Ive done a couple of those compliments, what I like about her is her artist side, she paints and I really like the way she express herself (I guess due to her artistic personality). I looked at her eyes and said that but I wasnt trying to impress her, I was pretty honest. And her eyes were like shining. And inmediatly after I said my compliment I ignored her and paid attention to some cats around the street. I saw her looked confused like "wait I was waiting for you to tell me more...".

Im about to ask her out maybe just to have a walk since we cant have drinks tonight due to law (elections tomorrow, law to not allow alcohol 48 before voting) but I dont know If I should invite her weed again.