| Yes I have some advice...I'll break it down very simple.
You are putting her up on a pedestal and getting onenitis in that very moment, not sure how long it lasts, but you then try to get it back on track.
Remember one simple rule...they are only as special as you make them out to be. Just because they are hot doesn't make them any different than all other females except your hormones and mind plays tricks on you.
Just act like you've known them your entire life, a good friend, but one that you can be playful and flirty with. Get used to this concept and just enjoy yourself and have fun. Don't over-think the situation or what do next, what do then, you guide and control the situation, you guide and control her....be interested in her not just for her looks, but for things she likes and who she is...I know it sounds very sappy, but it's true the more attention you pay and the more interesting you make them believe they are with a playful nature, is the more you build rapport, trust, and relationship no matter what kind it is.
Remember to have CONFIDENCE in everything you do and to be sure of yourself, your ability, and to know even if that ONE HB REJECTS OR DENIES YOU AND YOUR ADVANCES THAT THERE ARE MILLIONS UPON MILLIONS OF OTHER WOMEN OUT THERE....THE SEA IS LOADED!!!!
PM me if you ever need any and all help in any situation. I am here to help and I hope this gave you some different kind of insight. Be sure of yourself and remember that you are the special one and they should be grateful that you are even spending time with them. Good luck! (I know it sounds egotistical, but it's also very, very true....being special is in the eye of the beholder and so isn't quality and worth)
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