I coined this term, Minefield, to indicate a particular Shit Test.

The hb asks you a question, but there is an answer which, if wrong for her reference, makes her lose interest immediately.

Examples:

What's your sign? / which football team do you support? /do you like the mc donalds? ... whatever ...

The difference with the Shit Test is that the Minefield comes from Priming, an association that the girl do with one or more horrible ex. If you are of the same zodiac sign, if you support the same team, if you eat the same sandwich, play the same sport, anything, she hangs almost permanently.

I'm talking about when one feels she is warming up and start to think at you in romantic/ sexual terms, and then to not suffer a letdown after, she ask you if you like hockey on grass, because her ex-husband, who followed, was phisically abusive with her.

The female brain is much more sensitive to this priming effect, than the male's one.

Being weak, must bind to the fear that prove all the elements present on the scene and, when in doubt, to avoid them all.

For example, a mouse which comes administered an electric shock if they press a lever while it is inside a red box, will be afraid of the levers, but will also have fear of the red boxes, boxes in general, and the red color.

They call this experiment "Skinner Box".

It 'a survival strategy that throws the baby out with the bathwater because they can not afford to make mistakes, not having the strength to react in case of error.

The Minefield is a manifestation of weakness, of fear, but the point is that no matter how irrational, if you miss the answer, if you stepping on a mine, this can precipitate Buy Temperature or let it get completely lost even if you did not do anything wrong.

For Example, i knew an HB that gives me a lot of IOI, really, a lot.

Her ex boyfriend was a Karate instructor and did strip tease.

She asked me, whit concerned BL and acting as if she liked it, if I had done strip in my life, (Yes), and then somehow led me to mention the fact that I have taught various martial arts for 10 years.

She told me clearly that I remembered her ex and she no longer searched me, and she has not responded to my attempt to recontact her.

And we are speaking of an HB that really wanted me.

In that case i was lucky, 'cause i know the reason of her disinterest.

Sometimes you don't even realize it.

Simply you start to review in your mind every scene of what you did or said, assuming that it had wrong, and you do not understand the flake you've taken, expecially after a night that looked perfect.

Then talk to your female friends and find out how many times they have given a flake to one, only because he had the zodiac sign-favorite team-work, of their former or several ex boyfriends.

So ... you do get a shiver down your spine and stop thinking about what you did wrong, suddenly comes to your mind when she asked a normal thing and you answered... and from then you had no longer chance.

Very little can be enough: the brand on the jacket, the color of the car.

There's no strong logic behind it.

Interested in this concept?

In the next post I will write the three strategies that I have studied and field tested after a long discussion with other memebers in the italian seduction forum.

One, to avoid the mine before the question, one for when you have received the question, and one for when you've already stepped on the mine.

But I don't want to influence you, how you would respond to a suspect minefield?