**I posted this in the "General Questions" section and got no replies, so I'm trying here.**

I went to the bar with some friends last week and was having a good time, when I ran into this girl I had met in school a couple months before. A friend had introduced us in a frat party but we didn't really spoke or anything, just the awkward "Hi nice to meet you. Bye".

We immediately recognized each other, and I stepped away from my friends to go talk to her. We both got pretty drunk and ended up grinding on each other and making out and the conversation had turned to sex. It turned out that she lives really close to me, and we were talking about taking a cab home together. Then her friends came in and started twat blocking saying that she shouldn't go home with me and accusing me of wanting to take advantage of her. One of them even started to cry (They were pretty drunk. We all were). I walked away from them, said bye to my friends and went home alone. I didn't even number close. I normally wouldn't care, but this girl is drop dead gorgeous, a perfect 10

I was at the same bar last night with my friends again, and as I was heading out to go home, I bumped into her. It took me completely off guard since I didn't really expect to run into her again. We spoke for a few minutes outside, and she brought up that she didn't remember anything from the last weekend. I told her we should go out sometime this week and took her number. Everything was fine to that point, until it was time for me to leave.

When we were saying good bye, I motioned with my finger for her to give me a kiss on the cheek. She gave me this little speech about how she is a woman and she doesn't take commands from men and I shouldn't be demanding kisses from her. She was somewhat playful as she said it but not really, so I'm not sure if it was a test or if she was actually serious. I really had to leave and the same twat blocking friends had arrived so I said bye to them (they did kiss me on the cheek) and said to her "let's try again". She simply put her face next to mine but wouldn't kiss me. I smiled, shook my head and left.

I texted her on my way home and we had the following conversation:

me: you're mean
her: me?
her: no
me: Yes you are. It's (my name) btw in case you forgot.
her: I'm not mean

I went to sleep and texted her today around noon:

me: so what kind of trouble did you cause last night?
her: I don't cause trouble.

She took at least a half hour to reply to each text, and took over an hour to reply to the last one. That was at 12pm today and I haven't texted her since. I don't want to seem too eager or needy, and I don't know if she is just testing me or is just not interested.

She is leaving in 3 weeks to study abroad all summer and I feel like if I don't move things forward I'll lose whatever attraction we have, but at the same time I don't know how to proceed. Any advice?

**Update**
After not getting any replies on the forum, I texted her about 4 hours later saying:
"so are you a good girl?"
and she never replied. I went out and got 2 new numbers. but yeah, back to this girl...

Hmm tricky one....

There was definitely attraction there and probably still is but I wouldn't text her again until she initiates it, as she's starting to make a run for the exit. You might have to wait a week but it'll be worth it.

I don't think asking for a kiss that way is bad, as long as it is done in a playful way but maybe she has an issue with other men in her life telling her what to do (father, older brother etc) I have had this..

Anyway you got her number and she replied to your texts but in hindsight maybe the playful 'you're mean' backfired. Some girls are just over sensitive or perhaps she was testing you. Don't apologise or bring it up again. Do not text 1st again, always wait until she texts you and then if or when she does just be cool, relaxed (not bringing up anything from previous encounters) and make a definite date to see her.

She seems to have issues indeed, being oversensitive. When I meet people like that I usually eject ASAP and avoid them altogether, since they will just drain my energy and don't contribute with anything positive to my life. That is what I recommend you to do. The only catch is her looks, it seems. Well, just get over it. Focus on the new numbers you have instead.

Thank you guys. I think I'll go with hugge's advice and just cut her loose.