This has happened several times.

Last night out happened twice. First gWhen she saw irl was a girl I've talked to before in that club. She was with her friends and she apps to me first. I spoke to her for a bit on the dance floor but didn't really know what to do (contain wasnt great because she is French and doesn't have great English). So I carried on dancing with my friends. Then she started dancing code to me so a held my hand out for he to grab and we started dancing. Then I started talking to her on the dance floor again (probably bad move but I don't know how to transition from dancing). She then said hang on and went to talk to her friends but never came back (her friends with eight next to us. Her and her friends stayed next to us for some time though and sometimes I'd see them taking to each other and looking at me. but the fact she never came back to dance again makes me think she wasn't interested. Maybe she was interested but too shy to come over again and was waiting for me to come to her?

Second girl was my friends SPAM. I've talked to her once before. When she saw me in the club she was making strong eye contact to get my attention. I saw her and was started talking, we went upstairs to the dance floor and she kept making eye contact with me while we were walking, went to the dance floor and started dancing. I was touching her waist while we were talking and then holding her hands a bit while dancing. Then she asked if we can smoke upstairs and I said no, but I grabbed her hand and said "come on let's go downstairs to smoke". She pulled her hand away and said that if I want to go for a cigarette now then she will go with her friends later because she has only just got here. I took that as a signal that she isn't interested so gave her a kiss on the cheek and she went back to her friends (I got the impression she was wanting to go back to her friends). Later when I walked near her my friend said she was looking at me the whole time i was walking past, but by that time we were ready to go so I left.

Last week I approached hot girl while she was sitting down with a friend and we chatted a bit. Then she suddenly said she wants to dance with her friend (a girl) and they both got up and went to the dance floor. Then wheniI went to the dance floor 5 mins later she was giving me really strong eye contact. I went over and danced with her and her friend and talked a bit but then didn't know where to take it (probably should have signaled to my wingman at this point).

Why do girls seem interested, then do something like go back to their friends or go to the dance floor, but then make more eye contact again later? If they are interested why go back to their friends or go to the dance floor without inviting me?

Well...let me preface this post by saying I haven't been out sagging in about 6 months (I stay with my live in ltr) n just decided to get back on this forum after years off...I decided I kinda missed the comraderie n wanted to help ppl. Anyways with that said I'll try to give u the best advice I can.

I love hitting the dance floor, but it's really not a place to talk. If you try to have a condo there u have to stop dancing n do some awkward movements while both of you struggle to hear each other. Instead, let your body talk for you. If she's grinding on you and you are breathing on her neck, don't wonder if she likes you, just assume it. Although girls like to dance, they aren't going to forever. Everyone needs a break. So what I woukd do is dance with the girl n after a song or two, hold her hand n say you seem like you might be fun, let's go somewhere to talk n lead her away to a quieter place. From there, just play as u normally would when u have ur target isolated.

Think of dancing as a dhv. If you already have that connection just go from there. It seems like what's happening is the girl thinks Oo he's interesting, but you don't take it anywhere. So after she gets tired of waiting for u to do something, she goes back to her comfort zone. If she keeps eye fucking u, she felt something, u just didn't progress the situation. Remember bro, if she is already grinding her ass onto your cock, there is no need to wonder if she digs you. Just isolate, escalate, close.

Yeah maybe I should have escalated quicker. But we werent really dancing for long, just a few mins and it wasnt grinding, it was kind of more friendly dancing. But will girls really just give up after like 3 mins of dancing? And because she i the one who left me, I feel like if she is interested then she should b the one who comes back to me, otherwise I look like I'm just chsing her round the club.