Hey guys. To make a long story short, there's a girl who lives a few houses down that I'm trying to nail. I met her last August by the neighborhood pool. Right away, I approached her, and starting flirting with her, had her laughing, etc. Whenever we see each other outside while walking our dogs, or going to get the mail, we always end up talking and flirting. I have already applied some kino to her in certain situations (hand to hand briefly, hand on back, joke where I asked her if she had been working out and told her to flex so I could jokingly say "sexy" and feel her arm...) But I know I need to take it to the next level. At this point I should probably mention that she is engaged, and is about 4 years older than me, even though I dont think that reallly matters. (Im 20) I have already fucked a woman in this neighborhood last August. A much older woman. (Age 43) If any of you read my field report about the Mexican MILF then you know what I'm talking about... Anyway, I thought I'd bring that up to let you know that I know of the risks and am well prepared.
Back to the target at hand though... Once when we were talking, her fiance came up in the conversation, and I jokingly brought up the idea of marriage and she was like "Omg no please dont remind me of that..." Soooo, to my knowledge, I think she really likes this guy, probably even loves him, butttttttt I think he's a "nice guy" and that she's either really bored, doesnt wanna commit to anything right now, or a little bit of both. It's none of my business really, but information is useful in executing the right plan. We used to flirt a shit ton by the pool, and even talked just last week about how excited we were now that the warm weather was coming again. But heres the thing...
My condo that I'm renting is getting taken over by the bank, and I will most definitely be gone before the end of May, before the pool even opens. She doesnt know that I'm leaving yet, and before I do, I really wanna pound her little box. Idk if she would be more open to the idea if she knew was moving away, but I thought she might be. Ya know, kinda like a "here's your last chance!" kind deal... And because I'm not sticking around, the guy would never find out, and that would put her at ease, I'm guessing.
Next time I see her outside, I'm gonna ask her what she's doing, and then when she answers, I'm gonna say, "Grab the dogs, and let's go for a walk." If she takes the bait, I'll lead her to this part of the neighborhood where there is a shit ton of cover from the woods and a few other houses, and where none of her neighbors can see her and rat to her bf (cause people these days have absolutely nothing fucking better to do than stop two horny people from fucking).
When we're alone, I'll mention how it was good of her to take my advice and grow her hair out long again, and I'll grab a hold of it and play with the ends of it between my thumb and index finger, while looking her in the eyes, and telling her how gorgeous it looks, and how nice it smells. This will take balls, but I have escalated physically before on more than a few occasions, and realize that it is imperative if you truly want a girl to feel confident in the fact that you as a man hold all of the responsibility for the sex and the actions that you must take to get it...
Sexual tension will be created, and then I will break it and go back to talking about normal things, before bringing up an old topic that we once talked about. We are both of italian descent, and I dont think she knows how to cook, cause I asked her once and she said no. I know how to make the majority of my family's recipes, so I'll tell her that on one of these days, when we're both free, that I am going to show her how make the most bomb tasting sauce in the whole world. My guess is that after her heart rate increased from the brief sexual advance on my part that she'll go along with it, and understand the sub-text that goes along with it, which is that we'll definitely be cooking up SOMETHING...
Here's where I am confused though... Before I propose this idea, should I mention that I am going to be leaving before the summer, so that she realizes that I'll be gone soon, and to increase her buying temperature?
Also, if the plan to cook with in my house doesnt work, because she objects it, there is an ice cream place literally 3 minutes walking distance between the housing complex that starts its new season on the 23rd of this month...
I could one day see her outside, and just say, "let's go get an ice cream" and flirt mercilessly with her then at the ice cream place, utilizing kino and humor, and then when we see my house on the way back, I could say, "Come in for a minute. I wanna show you something..." and sneak her in through the back slider, but I don't know if she would be as open to that.
I consider myself a PUA, but only a fledgling PUA. I know I still have a long ways to go, but there have been some great dudes on here who have really helped me so far, so if you are reading this, and believe I have provided some pretty good information, please offer some suggestions, and criticize me constructively if you see something that believe is amateur, or something that you think I could improve on in the situation. Before I leave this neighborhood, I really wanna go out with a bang! (Pun intended)
Thank you in advance.
-Shredder
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