Its spring break and I'm visiting my friend at a university. We went canoeing and i number closed a HB8 on our way back. When i closed her she clearly stated she wanted to do something with us huge IOI. I tired to have her come over yesterday to smoke but she had work in the morning. I shook it off and say no worries and that we can just reschedule, also that my friend and i were doing something tonight. She later said that she works all day but she is free at night and to,let her now. Were going to a bar and i was going to invite her to come with us. Then what? Do i ask her if she can bring a friend for my friend? Do i just hangout with just her. This is my first pick up since joining the forum and have no idea what to do at this point. She knows that I'm a tourist so i think i have a good chance to f-close but like i said i dont know what to do? Anyone want to help a newb with their first in-field report

I'd invite he to the bar and tell her to bring friends if it will make her more comfortable if this is an opportunity to hang out with her.

From there just run your game without the need for openers.

Build comfort in the group and at some point try to isolate her either for pool, a smoke, etc.


If she turns down the bar don't invite her to something else straight away it may come off as needy or coming on too strong. Neg her calling he a workaholic, no fun or something if that happens.

Good luck with it.

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