I have no problem with female groups, but one guy and my brains goes, 'don't go, he's probably a boyfriend to one and you don't know which and this will end in a fight and and and and and'

Please help.

Here's my trick for opening mixed groups:

Approach the tallest guy and ask which one of the ladies are single. This is solid. You'll never end up in fights and the guy will usually help you.

You could also play it a little 'dirty'. Approach the tallest guy, ask his name, approach target and tell her, "[name] says I should go talk to you."

GOLDEN

For the dirty trick, I assume it's common sense you already 'investigated' the set so you know which one is highly likely to be single. It's easy to notice on a 3-set. 2 females, one guy.

Why do you approach the tallest guy? Haha

Prejudice no? Lol

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Uh, you're awesome. Thank you!

At first, I did it automatically. I just approached the tallest guy or the most muscular guy. But now when I think about it, it's because of social proof.

I guess subconsciously most people would approach the alpha dude of the group

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What if the guy himself was single and is gaming the single girls in the group though? If I was single and I was in a set with single girls I would be polite but not too helpful to a stranger walking up.
Maybe also ask if they guy is single too?

I also have difficulties approaching a set mixed or just female, especially if its in a bar/club, just a little easier in other settings though.

If the guy is a stranger ..

A good trick is to talk to your target and let the guy handle the rest of the friends.

But expect to be disturbed, hopefully your wings will join by that time.

It helps when you turn your targets back towards their friends do it's like a mini isolation

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What if? What if you die tomorrow? What if the guy is gay? What if? Just opproach and go freestyle. All of my own tactics are things I learned in the moment.

Hello my friend,

I had been struggling with this issue since my journey began, and I understand how frustrating it must be.

First, the inner workings

When faced with a potentially difficult approach situation, I ask myself this question:
"What if this girl is the girl of my dreams?"
Reflect on that for a little bit. That means that when you feel intimidated by the gorgeous super-hottie waiting at the bar all by herself with a "fuckoff" look plastered across her forehead, you ask yourself this question. When you see a stunning woman surrounded by 4 guys, you ask yourself that question. When you see her with her father/her mother/bill Clinton... It's irrelevant. What if she was the girl of your dreams? What if it was meant to be? What if she moment you walk up and say hi, she turns to you with the biggest smile and look of excitement on her face? Wouldn't it be worth it? What if there was just one chance in a million, just one chance that she would fall in love with you... Would you take it?

Second, the reality

No one will kill you. Literally. God knows I've done stuff that would merit a good beating and yet nothing has happened to me (yet?). No, the reality is that it is much easier than you think to meet women with other men.

How I overcame my fear

I was by the bar with my friend and some cute Greek women discussing life, love, and my travels. That was when I spotted her. I don't know how I can ever forget her, in one of the most high-end clubs in my city, she stood out. She was stunningly beautiful, as most slender 21 year old brunettes are. There was something different about her though. She wore a sparkling blue dress, and carried herself with a carelessness. It's difficult to express what it was exactly, especially considering my preference for blondes, but as soon as she walked by I couldn't look away. I told my friend "I'm not leaving without talking to her".

A few minutes later he walked over and laughed. He said "look at your girl" and pointed at the worst possible scenario I had seen in a bar. She was leaning by the bar, in the corner of the room, with 4 big, well-built, clearly rich men. As if her being imprisoned by 4 gorillas wasn't enough, her party was standing just beneath one of the club's speakers. I would not only have to get passed the 4 guys to get to her but would also have to tear my vocal cords to have meaningful conversation with her. Just as panic began to spread in my mind, my friend nudged me and said "You gave your word. We'll laugh about it later".

None of this is a big deal

When your mind starts to wander and you begin to panic, bring it back calmly and remember that none of this matters. What you say to some girl at some bar is in no way a measure of who you are as a man. When you wake up the next morning, you're still you. In the grand scheme of things, none of this is a big deal. Her rejecting or loving you is not going to solve poverty in South Asia, or hunger in Africa. Set your mind to greater things and the little things won't seem as important. And again, you can always laugh about it later. Learning to laugh at these situations is probably my most valuable tool.

So I stood there and laughed

I just stood there, surrounded by rich, gorgeous people, with their glasses of champagne and expensive clothes, and I just laughed. Completely sober, 5 ft 4, in less than mint clothing, my entire body began to relax. I literally heard a voice in my head saying: "Okay little buddy... Here's your chance" as if the universe was teaching me a lesson in humility.

I walked up, past the 4 guys (I didn't even acknowledge their existence) and looked at my girl. She looked back. I put my hand out and she took it. I spun her, pulled her in towards me and lead her out of the corner she was imprisoned in. We talked... It was her birthday. We laughed... her mother was staring at us... So were her cousins and co-workers I had just stolen her attention from.

Take action

It doesn't necessarily matter what you do, as long as you do something.

1. See her
2. walk past whatever obstacle
3. "Hi, Im ***" and give your hand
4. Ask how she knows these guys
5. If none are her boyfriend, keep gaming.
6. None of this matters.

Try it and let me know! Repeated practice wards away fear. Curiosity removes it immediately!

Give.Love.Serve.Meditate.
Mack
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I find it much easier in groups than two girls alone. If there are two girls they almost always tend to team up! I usually go innocent, with no intentions, just for the sake of talking to them. And this works, mostly I speak to the guys first and ignore the target or even the other one, it's better! You get approved by their friends and after few mins you feel like you've known them forever!

Definitely very little chance of you getting beaten up or anything like that

IF you watch the group for even 5 minutes , you can see if the guys have girlfriends in the group. Typically guys hold onto hot girlfriends like they are lotto tickets about to fly away

I actually get a kick out of guys seeing me eye their woman, their woman acknowledging my eyes with a smile and then the guy holding on to them for dear life. It shows their insecurity and that you are a threat to them.

Take this as a compliment