All I know so far are:
1.Demonstrate high values
2. Show disinterest in her, neg her(without being rude or impolite)
3. Take away, when you feel that she is not interested in you, you throw an IOD or take away
4. Bait--hook-reel-release: You bait her to demonstrate high values, then you show your interest in her, and then you release
5. Kino-escalation: You kino her, if you see that she doesn't feel comfortable with it or she doesn't comply, you take away and remove the kino and run a normal routine.

Are there any other ways to increase her interest level in you?

those are the basics, if you do those you will be straight......girls love humor, just make sure she sees you as "that guy she wants to f*ck" instead of "that guy she wants to talk to"

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

guys misuse neg game soo much. Thats one of the reasons i made this account bc it was pissing me off reading all these forums about guys blowing their chances because they over negged. DHVing is the best way to attraction. The thing about kino is it does nothing if you do not build up attraction first. For example, I was watching a fellow pua named Justin Wayne on youtube the other day, you may be familar with him. His pua style is like pressure sales, he forces iois and handholds and shit like that, and closes girls extremly quickly so hes pretty much a pick up sniper. However, he says all this bullshit about attraction being built by forcing handholds n shit but really the girls he iis getting a complying bc they are just being nice tbh. Sometimes he gets a 2nd date out of these girls but his shit is heavily edited and i bet hes failed more times than not. Guys think if you force kino on a girl she will become instantly attracted to you, doesnt work like that. U need to get her buying tempature high, kino is just a means to sexually escalate to get her in comfort, to get a kiss, to get sex but that attraction has to be set first. DHV's man. and qualifiers as well. I love qualifiers if you disguise them well enough its like baiting and hooking a fish. Through out a subtle qualifier on a girl you and interested in. Then see if she tries to validate/qualify herself in the process, if so theres something there to work with. In addition, disqualifiers work just as well. Using a disqualifier after she has soon a bit of interest in you will lower her value while increasing her interest temporarily. Obviously peacocking is huge when you go out, where something that will catch her attention. Thus increased interest.

hahahah i do agree with Maryland finest. he does do shit really fast. but many women are easy anyways so has good chances of picking them up lol. For me i tease. neg, go in to story with Dhv that shows im leader im men, that i had women in my life and that i protected of love once , use joke, make statement so she can talk and the same. tell me what you think about me @maryland finest?

Well, its really hard to make a girl interested if she ain't feeling you. If the girl likes what she sees or hears from you, she will give you a chance however.

I like it Ray. There are several approaches that work in pick up. So theres no full proof method. Guys need to find out what works for them. If they are a conversationalist use your words. If you are a pretty boy use your looks. Guys try to be everything or something they are not when they are sarging are setting their self up for failure. You have to be congruent and real with your actions, demeanor, and words or else females arent going to feel ya. I will say this you can "fake it till u make it" in pickup however u need to believe in everything you are faking, if you doubt women will sense it. Its not what you say its how you say it. Look up fellow pua ace cajun's blogpost on subtext its very solid and coincides with this post.

So basically guys hate girls who are a real head fuck yet you do it to them? Way to go losers. All this reel her in, ignore is so fucking childish it's hilarious.

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Not all girls are the same. I personally use a lot of cocky & funny stuff to attract them, but in some cases the sutff that i use broke my chances. Girls that are usually nice and good want cocky & funny, because is something different. They have been treated too nice and if you come and use cocky & funny on her, you are dramatically different from anybody else. For bad girls, you have to be cute with them, but not a loser. The ideea with them is that they have been treated too bad, so if you come as a cute person with great personality, make her laugh without insulting her, she basically gonna chase you.

NOT ALL GIRLS ARE THE SAME!!!

Remember, first you have the know who she is. Also something that instally attracs them are the Main Attraction Switches:


# 1: You must show her that your're safe. You need SAFETY and TRUST.

# 2: You must show her that you have either ambition, motivation, or
job/financial security. You must have a life and goals.

# 3: You must show her that you are differnt from all the other guys.
Show her that she can learn something from you or she can grow with
you. Show her that she can learn something from you. Use DHVs to do
this.

# 4: You must be a prize of the room.She wants a guy others will envy her
for, she can brag about to her friends. It's about social proof,
story-telling, alpha qualities, cocky/funny and not supplicating.
So switch #4 is demonstrating all of the many qualities of CONFIDENCE,
LEADERSHIP, AUTHORITY, and POPULARITY

# 5: It's a big world and we all feel alone in it, so if you can demonstrate
that you understand her and where she comes from, she will fell chemistry.
The more obscure and rare a trait that you connect on, the more chemistry
you create. So Switch #5 is demonstrating COMMONALITIES in order to trigger
CHEMISTRY

# 6: You need an auro of depth and mystery. You must maybe show a vulnerable or
wounded side of yourself, you must not give away everything for free, you must
be a puzzle she wants to figure out and maybe even have a wound she can heal

# 7: You must show her that you are NOT horny, but sexual. This is where social
proof comes in too, also demonstrating an understanding of her world (liking her
for who SHE is). So switch #7 is demonstrating your own LACK OF DESPERATION while
showing her that you RECOGNIZE SOMETHING SPECIAL IN HER THAT ATTRACTS YOU TO HER.

VERY VERY GOOD ADVICE.....but i ave to say although women are not the same you can category them in 9 personality groups (if you know how to deal with those 8 then you know how to deal with all women (except the select few like nuns and lesbians)

but that's actually alot of personality groups because men only come in 5

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Sometimes, less is more..

Wow are we still thinking in 2001 ways?

Look, you don't need to increase her interest in you. She is already interested in you. You are a man, she is a woman, there is natural sexual tension between you two. All you have to do is make her feel comfortable around you, and with comfort I just mean spending time with her. On the surface level you can talk about complete bullshit, it does not matter at all. You can talk about the birds, the bees and the trees. It's all in the subcommunications. Be a leading, congruent man who makes his intentions known in the vibe.

Be unapologetic about wanting her in the subcommunications. You can say "The weather is nice" in so many different ways. You can say it in a polite, casual way, or you can say it in a sexual way. Which one is more interesting? The second one, because it polarizes the girl, it gives her an emotion. It spikes an emotion within her because something that's said sexually is usually taboo. And it is also a thing that only a man who knows that the girl likes him will say, which is attractive to her. Funny, the fact that you know that she is attracted is what attracts her. It's a paradoxical cycle. You are not raising interest here. Words are only on the surface. There is a pull between you two beneath the surface, it is there and it will stay there naturally. If you two spent the rest of your lives on an island, isolated, at one point or another you two would have sex. You wouldn't have to "game" or anything.

So, now that you know that girls are already sexually interested in you, what do you have to do? You have to stay with them to build that comfort, that comfort will naturally create that "togetherness" feeling. You have to lead the interaction, so be commanding and not permission seeking, tell her how it is, where to go, what to do. You have to be congruent, honest, and transparent - You are hitting on her, let her know it. Let her know that you like her. Deal with the shit afterwards. The funs and the playfulness comes from buying yourself time to stay in set until you are isolated with her. You are basically just buying yourself more and more time to be with her, to create that comfort, that togetherness, and for her to come around and see that you are the man that she needs. After that lead her into isolation and deal with the problems along the way.

You don't create or increase attraction. It's already there.

This is brilliant.

I'm already doing this. I have high standards, and I wouldn't touch easy women with a barge pole. All I'm interested in is looking for that ONE, who would be interested in me without sex complicating everything.

In my previous relationship, It was SEX first, and getting to know each other after, and usually, I would find that they don't match me at all. So all that sex was wasted.

So I'm keeping myself for the right woman, but so far, I have not found her. They're so blind to me.

I am deaf, so it's freaking HARD for me to find that one woman who are not bland-faced, hard-faced, difficult to read her expression, etc. (sighs).

I got a lesbian friend, she's nice, I like her face, but I wouldn't poach her because she's in a relationship, so I respects her. Got another friend on the other side of the world, I fell for her, but by now, I know it's not possible. I have to lower my sights to the local, and again, the local girls are all seemed... used. I don't want used goods. I want fresh, clean. I hates diseases and I am careful.

My ex was a drug addict and a drunk, and it was hell living with her, 7 years! But I learned a lot. If ever I sees a woman drinking or doing drugs, I'm GONE. bye bye. I'm not interested in that kind of dead lifestyle.

So it's hard to find a woman who can party without these crutches!

So I liked these ideas, of how to maintain her interest, openers, and the like.

Compared to you blokes, I only had one long term relationship, and about a couple of failed one-night-stands, though the long term one was on-off one-night stands over many years before I finally gave up and settles for her, but I had to learn she was not right for me, she was already broken and I don't like broken women no more. Trying to help her get better and shit, that don't work. Shoulda known better. Shoulda walked away, doesn't matter about her kids, too. I love them, but I won't go back ever again. She came back, after 2 years, and wanted me back, I refused four times.

I want to build a life and a broken woman ain't no way to build a life with. She needs counselling, doctors, etc to work out her problems for her own self. I can't do that no more. That was 10 years ago.

Every time I sees a girl, I wants her, I want to fuck her brains out, I want to make her cum like she never cummed before with anyone else. I want her totally devoted to me, and never BETRAYS me with arseholes behind my back like my exgf did. I'd walk if she do. I don't need that shit. Faithfulness is a must. If a woman don't know the value of faithfulness, then she's only good for one thing and then fuck off. That's how it is. I learned that the HARD way.

I've read this. "Not all women are like that." mostly by women themselves, and I find them such a hypocrites. How can they conveniently IGNORES facts? It figures.

I have powerful libido, I takes care of myself, and I don't trust women until THEY PROVEs themselves worthy of my trust. So far, I have not met any that are worth making a LIFE with.

So I'll stay single, and play with them and wait for that true one, and die happy.

That's how I am. Unless you can convinces me that I'm wrong, write.

No worries.

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they'll make an effort to be in it." - Unknown

defman ....

I can tell you that i think the same way. I just want a girl that will make me happy for the rest of my life. And pick up worked for me. By pick up i had my first girlfriend. So the only thing i do now is searching for her online game, day game and even night game. If you don't try to find her it's hard to believe that she will find you. Imagine that you have to change and train for the moment you will meet her.


Good luck bro ! you are not alone