need help guys here's the info

so i met this girl in florida when i was on an annual vacation with my folks, my cousin's family came also and with them came this girl, she was a couple years younger than me but atleast a 8.5 so just trying my game i did a little joke on her and she just all out flirted with me, so i thought i was in the door..during that whole trip we flirted and had fun like little high schoolers in love and she gave me her number (claiming it was to contact her if i find her family)

so to start off she wasn't giving me much time but when we did text she replied fast and stuff, BUT she always got the last text before ending the convo...she was an asshole to me and that for some reason turned me on. she hid information from me and made me work for it to get it.....sometimes we'll go 2 weeks without talking and then we talk like nothing happened......she claims she has a boyfriend but i don't see how cause when we do talk its fast replies or hours on the phone (which i usually don't do with girls) plus she gets real mad when i bring him up.....this girls has me complimenting her and got me in her hands honestly

the reason i need your help is because she's doing literally all the stuff i do to girls to get them to love me and im falling for it even tho i know its the same thing.....i know how it feels now cause i cannot tell if its genuine or if she's just playing me lol...what do you guys think i should do?

the saddest thing is i love talking to her, like everytime we talk im happy af....basketball is my life and i literally stopped a game of 21 just to text her back, WTF GOING ON WITH ME. like i was talking to like 5 different girls but when i saw her name on the top of my screen i just smile.......WTF IS WRONG WITH ME LOL


I KNOW IM A BITCH FOR THIS LOL

P.S
im still playing it cool with her,im still using my natural game, coming off as alpha.....but deep down inside im falling into her trap....she doesn't know at all how i feel, atleast i hope she doesn't

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

As you seem an experiend PUA you're probably playing it alpha enough as you say, but you forget ONE little thing: She acts the same! You're equal now, or maybe she's even a bit ahead of you because you lack one thing: You sir are not willing to walk away.

You started with good chances while you two where together and probably that feeling is making you pretty tolerant, but ask yourself, do you want to be threated like this? Do you wan't to be at high risk to become just a toy for her? You don't. So brush her of. You should tell her you want to see her and you would hit on her hard if you got the opportunity but that she can go f*ck herself if she's toying with you. Accept the risk of losing her, because on the path you're walking now that risk is even higher.

Be direct and turn her down. She'll realize that you mean it and if she's into you she will get back in contact with you. Voila, turned the table.

see that is why i love this forum, such amazing advice....thanks man....so you're saying i should try to see her first then if it's the same just say fuck it?

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

That's what I mean indeed. You're alowing your emotions to take over like a damn estrogen sponge which is quite normal if you're developing onitis. Now get aware of that and accept that the current situation is that she has the upper hand. Calm down and play it by the book to get it back. Be not available, busy, neg her a bit blahblah you know the stuff. Then arrange a date, acting like 'hey you see we're having fun again like on vacation remember? Why don't we go out?' Then escalate so that there is no doubt about your intentions.

If she declines your invitation right away or avoids escalation on the date then be direct, say you WERE (not are, were, she'll more likely wanna have back what she got then keep on hold what she has) interested in her but that you're not a toy because your time is to precious to be wasted like that. Then ignore. If she want's you she'll let you know soon enough or else you could try gaming her again after a few weeks.

dang thanks alot, you're right i did just let my emotions come into play....now i honestly see why this works so well with girls smh

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Hehe that's something to remember. Every time you feel that things are not going as you used to have them go and you feel different, slow down en ask yourself what is different, what is it that you're feeling. We PUA's basicly learned to restrain our emotions but under the surface they still have influence. Once you're clear about what's going on on the inside you can translate it into a rational strategy.