Hey Everyone.. I have been going to this new place to get a hair cut for awhile now. I have managed to get the same beauty for most of my visits now. My last visit was last week. She remembered me from our talk awhile ago about how I did a Halloween haunted house.

We flirted a lot, we talked about a lot of things and how it was hard to find a good person and she told me how her ex was crazy and I told her that yeah I have had some crazy relationships and that i felt the same way (yes I know you should never talk about past relationships).

I told her that I am finding it hard to meet women while out and about in a joking way and she asked how come? [Here is the convo]

Me: Well let me use my past experience at a Great Clips for an example.
Her: Ok
Me: Well I went there because I need a quick trim as I was called in for an important interview
Her: O ok, so what happened?
Me: Well the girl was washing my hair her boobs were always right in my face.
Her: Are you complaining?
Me: Well no lol, and the whole time I was there she was really flirting with me but I couldn't tell if it was to get a bigger tip or if she actually might be interested.
Her: Yeah I don't have boobs so, and I wouldn't do that anyway.

She then told me about and experience with another co worker when she was getting her hair washed at work and how the co worker basically put her whole boob in her mouth (yeah yeah i was getting a little turned on by her story.. who wouldn't?) and she was explaining how if she stuck her tongue out she could actually like the other girls nipple.

Me: That's funny lol
Her: yeah it was hilarious, but I understand what your talking about.
Me: I guess guys try and give you their numbers all the time.
Her: Yeah and I just go and place it on my counter, and then when they are gone i throw it out.
Me: So what do they have a pen and paper in their pockets all the time or what?
Her: It is usually a business card
Me: Ever call any?
Her: no, I have a bunch of stuff on the go I don't think I am ready..
Me: Well no one said you had to jump right in to a relationship. You know just take things slow go out for coffee maybe a movie or dinner, walk on the beach.
Her: Yeah that's a great idea.
Me: So I guess I have to go get some business cards made up?
Her: *Smiles and giggles* yeah probably.
Me: What happens if for example we went out and then it didn't work out I would have to go looking for a different place to get a hair cut and try and find someone else that does a good job
Her: No, that wouldn't happen with me

The whole rest of the time when she was giving me a shave. She would actually have her boobs pressed right up against the back of my neck and be leaning over me. To me it seemed like we were really hitting it off and then she walked me over to pay and said "o let me stamp your card so you come back sooner!" I said "ok, and when I come back i'll just request you?" she answered back with "yes definitely" and before I could say anything else she got pulled away

I want.. no i NEED to go back but can I got back before I need another cut? I actually came a cross her on Facebook as shes friends of a friends friend and it came up on the side as "people you may know". However I think that might be a little creepy and make her thing "did he go looking for me?"

I am thinking I will wait till i need a cut or just take my nephew when he needs his next cut which might be sooner than me and just request for her and go from there and then write my number on a little piece of paper and say "Sorry it's not a business card lol"

There was more to our conversation that what I said above I just wanted to give you an idea of what went down.

Any suggestions or questions??

Please don't take this the wrong way, but it's hard to tell what happened based on your telling of the story. The non-verbals are the most important part. Specifically, body language. Stylists are, like waitresses, paid to provide you with a pleasant experience. More than that, she is stuck with you until your cut is over. If you flirt with her, there's nowhere to run.

My point is that it can be hard to figure out if she is flirting back because otherwise it would be too uncomfortable a situation or whether she is legit into you.

Your dialogue sounds a little like she isn't into you. She basically said she doesn't want any romantic advances. If you were just broken up with, but Sofia Vergara started to ask you if you were looking for love, what would you say? I'm going to assume that there was more to it, though.

Before asking out any girl, make sure she is providing you with IOIs. I usually like to wait until I get 3 of them. Resting her boobs on your neck while shaving you isn't guaranteed to be a IOI. Is it possible she needed to sit this way to shave you? Her encouraging you to come back sooner could be a IOI, but just as easily that she enjoyed having you as a customer, and nothing more.

It's kind of an unfortunate situation. You being in the chair getting your cut is a terrible position to be in for running game. Under the smock, you literally have zero ability to have body language or to test using kino. It means you need to use your face.

Look for non-intentional IOIs. Genuine facial expression, where her knees and feet point, etc.

IF, however, you've passed this point, and you're sure she's interested,as I see it, Facebook would be a minimal risk. The only question would be, are you ok with potentially not knowing whether she received your message, and/or whether she is ignoring you until your next cut? If not, I suggest booking a shave with her, and asking her out on site (after she puts the blade down).

Good luck!