Hello folks, i've been chatting with one girl on facebook, and i've met her live once. The story is about that we are chatting on fb maybe a 3 or 4 months, and when i try to go on date with her, she answers 'i can't my sister is going....I only go out for a weekend..etc. I stopped chatting with her, i don't want to waste time anymore. One week later she is writing first to me 'Hello'. And then I realize that i got nothing to lose, i say to her 'why you just don't gave a chance to me to go out?'. The gir says that she had some old stuff to clear and now it's done. I say okay and next day asking her to go out on date. She says that there is time, and we will talk later about that. And the weekend passed and I wasn't on date with her. I don't know what to do else, please help

She doesn't feel comfortable with you. Did you get her number yet? Did you build comfort? Putting a cart before a horse will get you nowhere.

Furthermore, dates are intimidating and imply commitment to certain behaviors. Go for a coffee - tell her to bring her friends (she will feel safer around them). This is a good way to build some comfort and to make a good impression on her friends. Yes, they will be talking about you later. Then - and only then - should you plan day 2.

Al

I got her number! we were joking ,and there was smile, i think that i build confort enough. I don't know what she want from me really, she is writing me on facebook, but won't go out..