I've been talking to a girl over text for a few weeks now and things are heating up. We talk about sexual stuff all the time and I finally suggested that we meet up this week. After a little bit, she said "why do you talk to me? I suggest you don't waste your time" as if she is trying to get rid of me. However, she does have somewhat of a cold attitude and has said something similar to this before. Anyway, bottomline is: I can't tell if she is shit testing me or if she truly is not interested (which is confusing because she does talk openly about sex and we flirt alot). What would be a good next move? Should I "shit test" back and just not talk to her at all cold turkey until she asks "hey, what happened to you?" then I could tell here "well, you said don't waste your time, so I didn't want to"? Or, should I ignore she ever said such a thing and carry on to set up a meeting with her. Note: she has shot me down once before already (though we weren't that open with each other at that time, so that could have been due to another reason).

She is probably testing you, and wants you to qualify her. So what you need to do is to have an honest and credible reason why you "waste your time". She probably needs some kind of IOI from you right now (a pull). Tell her something like "I like you because <insert reason here> and I find you interesting, how about meeting up?" (as you already have?).

The reason she has a cold attitude is probably because she is scared to get hurt (again). Ask her about what kind of boyfriends she's had, and she will probably tell you stories about betrayal. If that is the case, she needs a patron, someone she can rely on. Be that guy.

Well man depending on how you really feel about this girl....I mean its all up to you...but I will just give you A scenario of what I would do....to be honest I am A bit of an asshole and I do not care that much really and that shows to a lot of the girls I talk to and just brings them flying to me for some reason...


So anyways I came up with the conclusion that there are 7+ Billion people on Earth and rapidly growing....I mean to me it just....hasnt been that serious if A chick wants to play games and shit...I will happily find another one who will accept me and take it from there...

By this time the girl that was shit testing you will realize you dont talk to her anymore...and then she will try and talk to you. So now you pretty much have two options...or maybe even more depending on how many other women you talked to.


On top of that...like Mystery states:

"Humans only have 28,000 days to live"

So I mean...who has time for all that shit testing and mixed messages? You know what I mean? But like I said that is just my take on how I would handle the situation!

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