Hey guys, I have a problem with keeping conversations going/interesting with girls during Texting. I would really appreciate your help/advice. So let's start here; I'm 19 years old and single. I had a girlfriend when I was 16-17 and another when I was 18. I had an easy time talking with my exes because;

-one of them talked alot! I just listened alot and actually felt good with her because I didnt have to put much effort into our conversations because she talked mostly.
- the other one was shy but we did not feel shame between eachother so we could say anything talk about anything, mainly because during the time we met we talked about sex alot during text so there was no shame left. That made everything easy.

Now my problem is NOT starting a conversation/getting someone's number or adding someone on facebook. In real life im just myself and sometimes I meet girls and ask their number/fb and then the drama starts.. I can't have a nice conversation most of the time.

For example, I have the number of 3 girls on SPAM that I NEVER see, I just met them once or met them online and got their number but I'm not talking to them.. their waiting for me , i know it, but when I start talking with them I'm scared that the conversation will be bored and they will lose interest. I've experienced this. I feel like they can't get to know me by texting. And asking them out to meet does not work until I have 2-3 good conversations with them.

Now you could help me with this: In the train I sat next to a girl who is from the same country as me (armenia) and she started talking and i asked her name and added her on facebook. I know that she has interest in me, maybe not so much but there is potential. SO I added her and we talked once. Now I really want to talk to her again and ask her out but I don't want to start a conversation which ends boring.

This is my strategy during talking..; be yourself...
loosen up and care less about what she thinks..
I always ask the girl : what are you doing? When the conversation stops.

If I talk to her now and ask;
ME : Hey how are you?
SHE :Heey Im good and you?

ME: Im good to, how is life?
SHE :--- (If im lucky she will start talking alot) Not much/tell a story..

ME: What are you doing?

Thats all.. and then I end with oke or something but I dont want to be like that..

Please help me, thanks!

Have you read around at all? I think those mundane conversation pieces would be more for after a relationship. I'm far from a pro on text-game. I'm just now actually focusing on it because I too lose a lot of girls via text messages.

Check this out for starters and maybe search around here because I think you'll find out pretty quick what you're doing wrong. http://www.puatraining.com/blog/importa ... e-elements

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