Hey guys so here is a tough situation:

Girl I met has a boyfriend who has been with her for two years and now they live together.

What do you guys think, is it possible to game her and make her drop the bf or is it just nearly impossible at this stage for a relatively inexperienced person like me?

Thanks!

Need more info... Did you kiss her / get her number etc.?

If not then get out there and see other girls

I got her number and we talk fairly regularly. Conversation initiated both ways, she seems to be asking lots of questions and generally interested.

Went out two days ago to get some cookies, she seemed to have a good time. Initiated some kino like pulling her closer and pushing her playfully, she reacted positively but did not herself initiate. No kiss yet as did not think she was ready but meet ended with her asking when she can see me again.

Generally I had the impression that there may be a chance but the bf living with her seems like a big obstacle.

What do you think?

Don't force her to stop seeing her boyfriend. Don't mention her boyfriend at all. All you can do is make her chase you a bit, escalate to a kiss and then escalate from there towards sex. If she says "i have a boyfriend" just say something like "When 2 people have chemistry and urges as strong as this, it's hard to resist" and carry on kissing her.

Don't see her as GF material. ... for now. Just escalate towards sex and see other girls.

Brilliant answer, thank you!

Unless you already fucked her or she sucked your dick, move on man. Gaming girls w/bfs is really low percentage. It isn't worth the effort most of the time unless you meet them in a logistically good situation where you can close that night.

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Thank you for your feedback. I do understand that the chances are low, but I do want to take a shot at it. I do have a fairly busy life and keep meeting other girls so there is no danger of oneitis.

Now a more specific question: we have arranged to go for cookies next evening. This is the second time I am meeting her alone so I do want to heat things up a bit more. Last time there was some kino but nothing serious.

How do you guys think I could best k-close her on the date?

Damn, you sure like those cookies!

Don't force the kiss but build the tension with kino, eye contact, looking at her lips etc. Try to gauge if she's keen for the kiss then go for it. Don't speak about the kiss beforehand either; minimise the amount of time she has to rationalise her thoughts and begin to feel guilty.

Good luck!

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