Hi party people.

I'm here to talk you about the girls I like the most.
I'm pretty requiring about the girls I want, and I think that for a more serious relationship, I have quite high standards & expectations... So you may be sure I rarely find girls I want to be engaged with.

The truth is, I'm still able to find this kind of girl... But I just CAN'T game them normally.
You know this OI bullshit & stuff, have you heard of it ? It's not quite the point, but, as I'm already quite ecstatic about life in general and all it's wonders (you know, I may be atheist but I still feel like the Little Prince sometimes), I can't help myself. I'm so in love with authentic women that when they furthermore are as interesting as I'd want them to be... I can't hide my joy ! I'm not rushing on them or anything, but I'm drove to them be affection and desire... and that's beautiful... but it fucking destroy all my game.

I don't want to repress or control my emotions. How can I use them to serve my game?

Any ideas ?

Thanks for reading, you'll be rewarded by a flying unicorn giving you bananas and stuff.

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Let it be.

same here dude. i can game the shit out of chicks ive no interest in but the ones i really connect with make me have to think how to game rather than be natural. it comes from fear of losing them so you dont take the risks that work more often than not which is the essence of game.

imo it helps to focus on their less-than-ideal points, to avoid putting them on a pedestal and ruining your game. and teaching yourself to change subject whenever u find yourself thinking about them.
this is the kind of situation that nexting helps avoid also.

but its a pain the balls if you end up oneitising about a work colleague or someone you cant avoid in everyday life...

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If its got tits or wheels, it will give you nothing but trouble

Thanks for your reply, I apreciate.
Good to know I'm not alone, although this subject is quite usual.
When you fear to lose them, yeah, you fuck up your own game, and when you're in a frame where you're comparing values and you think you aren't good enough for this or this girl (wich is, let me remind it to you, absolutely false), you actually need some more detachement.

I'm more on a contemplative mindset. Like, I sometimes find a girl so intersting that I can just freeze out and smile, staring at her. It's like it makes me do nothing but be overflowed by female energy. Crap.

I maybe should become more used to the compagny of very special girls.

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Let it be.