Wonder if you can help me?...

I've been reading pickup and seduction stuff for years, only just starting implementing it.

It works, I know that much. I'm starting small online to get the process down.

Anyway, here's the deal:

1. IMing this girl I met online, she lives on the other side of the world so this is just a test for me. My goal is sexy pics, sexting or whatever...just so I can see the process.

2. Demonstrating value was really fucking easy, I opened a shit load of loops about stuff we had in common and she started qualifying herself to me left, right and center.

3. She is pursuing me for conversation and I'm maintaining the dominant frame.

4. She's opened up about sex which was good at first because she was qualifying herself BUT then she started wanting me to be a relationship counsellor so I blanked her.

5. She is clearly attracted, comfortable and interested BUT I'm kinda stuck where to go next. I've not complimented her on her appearance, she's hinted at seeking validation there but I've not fallen for it.

6. She's an above average intelligence 6/10 with relatively low self-esteem.

7. Her low self-esteem pisses me off so I'm going to leave her better than I found her.

8. What's the best way for me to get her in the mood to send me some pics, I just want to see the process and get a pic or two out of it so I know what works?

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks guys,
Hal Emmerich

(1) Why are you trying to get pics when you can use online game to get laid by women in your area?
(2) Is the chat going in a sexual direction? If not, take it there. Do NOT use sexual words to start, but start with obvious sexual innuendo, let her be the first to instigate the use of actual sexual words, and then it's on.

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Hi TheFury,

1. Good point well made, I'll make the switch.

2. Great advice thank you, I did the question game and she immediately went sexual with it.

This is so much easier than I thought it would be.

Got her on the phone, she's boring as shit though...Obviously, I'm moving to girls in my area so is there a way to weed out the boring ones, she sounded cool on IM?

Hal

Glad I could help. Honestly, I like to just meet in person quickly versus too much phone/txt/messaging. I find it more effective as you have more to talk about in real life. She could be boring because you have already built her up over all this time and you guys have already talked about a ton. This commonly happens when you share too much before meeting/talking.

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Wicked, thank you!

What you say makes sense with what I've seen so far.

The thing that really surprises me is how well pickup techniques work, it's not so much the lines or whatever as it is the structure, constantly advancing etc.

By far the best thing so far seems to be takeaway selling, combined with making leading statements rather than asking questions.

Those two things combined seem to get them chasing you.

It works wonders for your confidence.

You're right as well, the whole thing would be much easier in person (and much more fun)

Thanks again for your help

Hal