This is a good problem to have I guess, but there are a couple of women that I'm interested in, and vice-versa who I am mid-game with (have numbers, some plans to go out, good flirting, etc.) but my problem is that I feel like moving any further or "closing the deal" with one will shut all the other doors, or just make for some uncomfortable situations.

Some of these girls frequent the same places or have some acquaintances in common (which is hard to escape in a city with popular spots) and I'm not sure how to manage that. I have plans to meet up with a girl at a club but I don't want to put my arm around her or do anything obvious in public because I feel like it makes is look like we're "together" to our friends -- but even thinking like that makes me feel kinda guilty.

Any tips on managing multiple options? Or is it a game where you have to choose wisely and deal with losing out on all the other options? Or does this actually make me appear MORE desirable to the others?