I just got friend zoned and I want to rage.
I don't really care about the girl so no love lost, but it's the point that I got to that place.
Never in my life have I been friend zoned and I'm 24. I can see this is starting to become a problem and that this will happen more often. To my defense though I work with her and never really tried to hit on her because she had a boyfriend she just broke up with. What throws me off is she was giving me plenty IOI's.
As for women in general I can approach them with no problems. I actually have friends that take me out just to approach girls.
I have no fear of rejection I broke through through that boundary.
The problem I am having is building attraction. I can open girls all day and talk to them but the attraction just isn't there. I can't keep these girls engaged. I use some light kino and I try to be aware of my body language.

The truth of the matter is and I hate to say this... I am not a very interesting person. I don't even know how to go about changing that. I don't have the money to travel or anything like that. Actually I am pretty poor it sucks. That's a work in progress though. I just need to figure out a way to create attraction.

I can't figure it out for the life of me. I never used to have this problem but something changed and I can't quite put my finger on it. Since I got friend zoned I see this is a serious problem that needs to be fixed now!

Anyone know of any good books to fix this problem? Perhaps, some of you had the same problem and already fixed it? Also...I get numbers like it's my job but they all flake. No, I am not that guy that walks up and asks for a number then walks away. I talk to them and if things go good I go for the number then continue to enjoy each others company. However, when I text them to do something they always flake. They say they have work or come up with an excuse then stop talking to me altogether.

I feel like if I can build attraction that the flaking part will fade. Is that true?
I am willing to read links and books as long as they aren't too expensive.
By the way I hit on girls anywhere and everywhere. So day and night game.

Hi!

Some ideas for you:

1. You are the most important person for yourself. Don't put ANY pressure on yourself.
2. Try to find your own zone where you can hunt girls.
3. Try couple of beers and a nightclub, broaden your views. You say your economy is not good, are there any cheaper places to go out? Just so you get the feel.
4. Women that don't send you sms don't worry, has nothing to do with you. Women change their mindset like every five minutes, I wouldn't give it much attention.
5. Don't invest to much in them, they should chase you.
6. Raise your (DHV) Demonstrate high value by for exemple being social like you are, in this we put one wonderful ingredient, neglect the hot chicks, ask one chick i bet you cant say to me 3 interesting things about you then she will be qualifiying herself to you, the hot chicks will see you talk with her and you will be more interesting, applicable in a night club.
7. Building attraction by visiting a nightclub. There watch girls that are drinking, if in a group zero a girl that is constantly looking around and ngelecting her friends a little bit, watch out for cock blockers and bitches, if they are rude to you say for exemple stop playing tough its unattractive. Talk with a girl then go from her when the conversation is at its best, the you go talk with another girl . The previous girl remebers you with good talk and whenever you want you can go back to her. Talk with her/someone else, laugh and have fun. Then later when the evening is ending ask her if she wants to see your apartment. This is a die hard move and is a little bit rough but I scored couple of times with this one. If you don't want to be so obvious ask here if she wants to watch tv with you or catch a game on tv. Don't worry man if a woman wants you you will bang her. If you don't want to use my apartment say to her that there is a homeparty and that you are invited. When you go out from the club you call your friends who say that the homeparty is on and you go to homeparty (your place). Well there you are suddenly getting sms that the friends will not come since one of then drunk to much and needed their attention.
8. Play with it, its just a game, why would you give a fuck when they don't?
9. Beware of cheep freeze outs, this is a sign to seek other options, don't stay there just go away and wait for their next move if there is one.
10. Just have fun, think about yourself first, make it easy for you.
11. Leave your comfortzone, here the girls know you and just say, aaahhh yeah that's him hes nice, NO, go to other places, other clubs, than sudden change will appear. Break new ground.
12. Be uncontrollable. NO PRESSURE!

P.S. Women want to hump 5 days in a month when they are really horny, compare that to us man who are horny 30 days each month

Gametime!!!

Hey man appreciate the advice! Definitely going to give this stuff a try. Thanks!