I'm quite fond of the attraction phase although I'm definitely having trouble with understanding the comfort phase.


How do you know when to start building comfort?
(I'm assuming its once you feel she has invested enough from the attraction phase...)

How do you know when you've built enough comfort?

What does building comfort consist of?
(redirects to a list of some sort would help alot)


Obviously you want to be moving from the attraction phase into the comfort phase etc
...So what are some things you can do in the attraction phase that you can't do in the comfort phase?

I need the right mindset of these two phases so when I put them together they actually fit.


If you have an analogy that would help also

Thanks

as i believe it you should start building comfort when you feel the girl is engaged and when she starts talking and opening up..although i also think this area seems quite vague i think you have to trust your own radar and implement it based on your own intuition of when you feel...'hey i think this is going quite well' failing that maybe between 5 and 10 minutes into the set