Hello guys.

So basically i don't know what to do after opening...
I usually open with something that is honest like

Opening : Hey guys , i need your opinion on something.So i have a friend and she is in a relationship for 6 months.She was at a party and kissed another guy in mouth for just a second and we were wondering is that cheating or? ( friend really asked me this )

And in the middle of their answer I change subject.I say something like i really like your dressing style or something like that and we end up talking on different subjects for a while. I do kino i tell a girl : "Did you know that ring on your finger tells all about your personality..( i saw this on youtube , can't remember excatly ) and that's all. I can't finish , i can't build a sexual tension between us..

I have the SAME exact problem...

It's not that you are changing the subject rapidly So she doesn't notice. You're TRANSITIONING into your next Story, routine, kino test, Whatever.

So let's say you give an indirect opinion opener. (With Time constraints and Roots*Telling her the reason you're talking to her* For maximum effect)

After the Opinion Opener is done, you now have to 'Transition' into the main subject. Some of my Favorite lines were:

"Hmmm...wait do I know you?" -I'd use this in the middle of the opener to Transition early. Then bullshit, her make her laugh, then introduce myself.

or

"Uh-huh. I like your Opinion. What's your name?" -This I'd deliver right after the opinion opener. Give her a reward for staying and talking by telling her something I like about her, and going right into introductions.

You can even Transition with a Neg, albiet it's a bit advanced and reserved for HB 8's and up. If you see she's starting to get into the convo, you can give her a SOFT neg. My favorite:

HB: blah blah

Syx: *Smile* Did you know your nose wiggles when you smile? There it goes again!

HB: Blah no way blah!

(Note: At this point you have to reel her back in)

Syx: Haha yea, that's cute. But go on continue..and stop getting us off track!

^That's the kind of transition I tend to normally use (Because I only talk to HB 8 and 9s)



Notice how you can use Transitioning at any point of the convo. Here's an Example of a conversation:

Syx: Hey do you know....*Indirect opener*

HB: Well...blah blah blah....

Syx: wait do I know you?

HB: no I don't think so.....

Syx: You remind of this one girl I know that I went to a party to...wait No go on with what you were saying (Multiple threading. I would intend to go back to this topic with this statement)

HB: Oh ok blah blah blah

Syx: I see, I like that Opinion. What's your name?

HB: Hot Babe

Syx: Cool, I'm Syx. And you're sure you don't know RandomdudesnamethatItotally justmadeupoffthetopofmyhead?

HB: No...I don't think so....

Syx: Hmm, that's strange because I was snowboarding with him in West Virginia.....


See how I Transitioned into my DHV story(Snowboarding in West Virginia)? The conversation flowed smoothly rather than just jumping to a previously thought of routine. It should feel as though you're completely comfortable around her so she can relax and get to know you as well.

Don't worry about building Sexual Tension until you can get a girl to feel comfortable talking to you for an extended period of time.

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Thanks for answering. I will do that next time