| hey guys,
I read the book 'the game' a long while back and I have gained knowledge of this forum through the book. I need advice on my current situation, where do i go from here? what should i do next? how do i get her to want me?
First of all, (from other's perspectives) I am a good looking guy, I'm covered in tattoos and I used to model for a company called NEXT. My character is rather confident, talkative, social, intelligent.
Anyway, I met this girl at work and for half a year we never really spoked, but I knew I liked her from the moment i saw her. Just yesterday we had a staff party, I pulled her to one side and told her that I liked her, she then went on to explain how she thought I was a player kind of guy, but she still fancied me. I then asked her out, she replied with "just message me tomorrow, when we are both sober". So I did, I messaged her and asked her out again, she then replied with "yeah sure, but what are your intentions, I've just come out of a relationship and I really dont want to go back into one" (her past relationship; boyfriend cheated on her).
She said she's busy this week but asked me if im going to a party shes going to (suprisingly enough, I was also invited to the party) So i'll see her then. My question is;
What should my game be? should i hold back, let her make some effort? what do i do !
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