Hi guys. I would really want to have your standpoint on this topic...

I admit that I am still on the process of being an alpha. I'm following the procedures to show confidence.
I just had this experience yesterday wherein I was talking to an HB8 somehow doing DHV, her male friend (which I can see, is also interested with her) which is also showing alpha attitude butt-in to our conversation ... since I'm still new and still practising being one I just froze, I realized that I somehow became submissive and lost the game...

What are the things needed to be done in this kinds of situation?
Should I do Power tripping? (like challenging the other alpha male?)
Or, Should I excuse myself and get out of the situation?

this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_22gJ5kB31k

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Immediately introduce ur self then neg the girl to the guy .....
Example: introduce ur self ..... Then say something like "I'm glad ur here ... This girl is wearing me down with her flirting."

Then FTC by saying to the dude "2 minutes .... 2 minutes .... I just want to say something to her .... 2 minutes ....2 minutes "Then pick her up away from the guy ...." .... People have the tendency to repeat the last sentence u say to them .... The guy will be repeating in his head .... "Oh only 2 minutes ... Only 2 minutes ...."

Then tell the girl .... "I'm such an ass hole for taking u away from ur friend" .... U have to say this because the girl will be thinking "does this guy know what he is doing ..." N this will rationalize that thinking ....

U can also skip the first step n' just pick the girl up away from the guy .....

Enjoy the face the guy makes when u do this ...... Ku ku ku

I think the key in situations like this is to stay calm, don't get into a pissing contest, and ignore the guy.

Whoever's frame is stronger will end up the winner, so don't jump into his hoops. Some advice given in an earlier reply is also good. Learn to sarge guys and technically this becomes a two set when the obstacle enters. Open him, FTC, neg target, DHV, does target IOI? Compliance test, if she complies IOI her and then say to the AMOG that the two of you need to go have a chat. You'll need to isolate, and doing so with confidence is important. Don't make excuses for yourself, just say "We're going to go have a little talk."

Smile big and pat him on the shoulder. Hard.

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That's my $0.02

-Bluesy

Wow... all of your suggestion works... I DID IT... the alpha went into a freeze mode when i was able to pull the target and isolate her.... thank so much guys... Im going to do this again, and again and again to perfect the process.... hahaha...