okay so i opened this girl and her mum at a bar. i used the "do you think kissing is cheating?" openor and then said my girlfriend had dumped me because another girl pecked me on the cheek, my game was solid and went better than i thought so to cut a long story short im now in the position where her mother is fond of me and says im perfect for her daughter, she even bought me a drink that night, i got the girls number and have exchanged a few texts over the last two days, and ive asked her to out for a drink soon and she said yes, some of my family know her family, i have worked alongside her dad so everything seems perfect. heres the problem tho, my openor was a lie so if that comes out im gonna look like a creep, i havent had a girlfriend since the age of 10 (im now 21) i havent had sober sex, i have crippling anxiety and im really keen on this girl but shes blunt as hell with her texts and never texts me first, she is a hb10 and a nice girl, shes 19 and slept with two people of which were relationships ,lost her virginity at the age of 18 as did i, so my problem is basically sexual anxiety with her, how do i go about making a move on her, im not so nervous about the date as we talk fine together and had such a laugh that night we met and spoke for like an hour and half and she was giving me major IOIs, but alcohol made all that easier, and do i be persistent and keep texting her, because although shes not talkative through text, i feel as if i may lose her if i dont keep in touch, is she playing hard to get? my minds seriously confused

woah bro... slow the fuck down lol you are creating a ton of scenarios with this girl that don't even exist.

IF she ever happens to call you out on it, what the fuck is she gonna say? make up a story and change the subject.

if she doesn't believe or agree with your story... who gives a shit? you got the experience from the interaction and now you know what you did right and what you did wrong. This game is not about picking up one girl and wifing her down... its about getting as many references as you can so when that STUNNER walks by, you know exactly what you need to do, step by step, to get her. There are 7.2 billion people on this planet. Half of them are women. Don't go head over heels over the first girl you approached that said yes to you. Plenty more will say yes.. TONS more will say no... But if you keep trying, there will be more and more yeses.

From being obsessed in the past with one girl and with a girl being obsessed with me before, I can tell you it's not good from my experiences, okay, don't text her, EVERY, FREAKING, DAY, you're mostly likely going to annoy her, she does have a life like yourself afterall, maybe text her for a while like twice a week or something, also constant chatting away will not only make you appear needy and desperate to keep her focused on yourself but eventually you'll run out of interesting things to say, so you'll end up boring her. Remember, neediness is unattractive. Im not saying stop texting her, im saying tone it down a bit, if you feel like chatting to her and it's a little too soon from last time, why not chat to a friend instead for a while?

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

If she calls you on it or asks, just say "oh that was just a line - had to figure out how to talk to you" with a smirk.

I've used variations of this before and it's generally flattering to them - or at least accepted that way.

Others may disagree - but I've had success with it.