i don't know how but some days ago a cute girl that i didn't know came to me and asked for my facebook , we talked for about ten minutes we exchanged our phone numbers and all that stuff , she talked with me the day after , everything seemed perfect , but the thing is after that day i met her several times but she was like trying to avoid me , i went to talk to her but i felt like she was uncomfortable , it was like i fucked up with a step or something ,
anyway this happens to me so many times it's like my sticking point , lots of my second meetings fail because the girl is uncomfortable ,
i thought that she wanted to be sure that i was on her by making me chase her ( if it's the case do you think it's recommendable for me to chase her or make her chase me , and how ? )
than i thought i didn't build enough connection ( if you have any tips or videos that helps to build more connection please don't hesitate to share it )

anyway i didn't solve my problem because it's still happening to me , what do you think of it , and how would you deal with it ?

Chasing you? If a girl comes up to you and gives you her Facebook, she's clearly chasing you. If she appears uncomfortable when you see her later, it is likely because you did not respond to this in way she expected, i.e. you did not have the balls to follow through. Did you invite her out to do something? Did you try banter with her, or did you try to sext? If so, how was this received?

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actually yes , we talked several times later in phone and in facebook also , i didn't mention above that it was at the university , and this is the main thing i didn't invite her to do something because everything is far unless i use a car or something , anyway everything happened so well that i thought she was going to invite me , and here i am now , feeling i'm losing her and i don't know what to do !