Hello,

What do you say after the opener?
I'm running out of things to say, do you ask a question or make a statement?
I got problems with the mid-game.


For example:

Me: I wanna say ur looking very cute!
HB7: Aw, thank you
*shake hand and introduce myself*
Me: So what are you doing in the city today?

But after that...

I heard u need to make compliments about her clothes, but what if she's wearing casual stuff.


Do you got any tips?
Or statements that ya'll use?

Thanks!

Me: I wanna say ur looking very cute!
HB7: Aw, thank you
*shake hand and introduce myself*
Me: you probably have things to do now, but I would like to talk to you some other time. What about going out for some waffles, later this week... Some friends just recommend me the best place for waffles ever according to them.

Recommendation is go for the date...

Wow, i'm gonna try this!
This a quick number close, is it working tough?

I noticed that the question 'who's the lucky one?' sucks.
A lot of girls say they have a boyfriend! (ask for his name)

What do you think of these statements:
Me: ur looking like a dancer
Me: ur probably buying clothes for our date
Me: Say one thing cool about you

Thanks!

Check this out. Article on how to hold an interesting conversation. It's probably the most important part of pick up aside from escalating sexual tension.

http://themajikalmethod.com/welcome-to- ... versation/

You are getting a number close, you are going for a date close.
If you look for a number close there are several tricky ways that will assure you to get it. Yet a number close is nothing if you can't meet her later.

In this case it will work because it will save you time. If she is interested in meeting someone, you have big chances that she will agree to go out with you again. If she is not interested she will reject you on the spot.
Well my personal point of view of those statements is that if she is in a playful flirty state, she might understand that you are not taking yourself very serious and those statements might add something fun and flirty... But if she is not in that state you'll sound as a jerk.
To my experience girls are not naturally in that playful state specially around strangers.

This was in a previous topic - can`t remember where though...

YOU: Let`s play a game, I`m going to ask you 3 questions and you have to lie. I have to guesse which one is the lie!

HER: Ok.

YOU: (This is where you ask your 3 questions)

And then you have found out more about her. Whether you guess correct or not is not the point...

YOU : Where would you most like to live?

HER: Australia.

Now, if this is a lie, you can ask her what`s wrong with Australia, and where would she really like to go. Also, you have 2 other topics to talk about aswell as the multitude of threads that will come about from each answer.

I'm sorry for that, but first of all, u never introduce youself. U are always waiting till she is telling u her name, or u are asking. But this just by the way.

After saying ur opener, do a compliment she NEVER heard before; like, when she has beautiful blue eyes, u mention her hair or sth. else she thinks it's not perfect on her. Cause u have to be different.

Well, after ur opener, ask questions about her, but on a personal level.

"What was ur first experience about ... [new friends]"

"How was ur first kiss?" (Late game)

Three important aspects:

1. Tell sth. about yourself

2. Tease her -> 2 steps forward, 1 backward

3. Don't talk too much and it shouldn't be like an interview

I hope it will help u

Good luck,

Joe